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  1. SillyMilly's Avatar
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    Re: Why do girls/women cheat?
    Its nothing to do with gender although I do think that women turn on the water works, try to pain the guy out as the baddie or make out they were so drunk it wasnt there fault whereas guys are obviously the stronger ones so can hardly use to poor old little m line.

    Peopl cheat because they are selfish they dont think about the other people they will hurt they just think of themselves they want something and they will do it regardless

    There is never an excuse for cheating Whether your drunk, not given enough attention cheating is inexcusible people just use the 'Oh I was drunk' line to try justify and sooth their guilty conscience, maybe its not true once a cheat but the line 'what goes around comes around' is most certainly true
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    (Original post by SillyMilly)
    but then you walked around with cum on your face and slept with another man its harldy a suprise youve cheated
    yeah well the lad I was with was sweet but boring, this other guy was just so good looking I couldn't resist
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    but then you walked around with cum on your face and slept with another man its harldy a suprise youve cheated

    zzzzzzzzzzziiiiiing!
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    yeah well the lad I was with was sweet but boring, this other guy was just so good looking I couldn't resist


    10/10 for honesty.

    1/10 for character.
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    If my boyfriend isn't showing me the attention and is treating me like I don't exsist, then yeah I will be out seeing somebody else.
    pretty much this. If im feeling insecure or unloved then i will seek attention elsewhere.
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    pretty much this. If im feeling insecure or unloved then i will seek attention elsewhere.
    Then you either 1) talk to your partner and fix it 2) dump them and then meet somebody new you dont cheat
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    pretty much this. If im feeling insecure or unloved then i will seek attention elsewhere.
    I do this too I mean afterall what no one knows won't hurt
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    I do this too I mean afterall what no one knows won't hurt
    then you dont deserve to be in a realtionship
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    then you dont deserve to be in a realtionship
    yeah well i'll keep doing what I am doing, it's harmless to me
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    yeah well i'll keep doing what I am doing, it's harmless to me
    LOL at your ignorence until you fall in love with a man and he does exactly the same to you do you have no compassion for the people youve hurt?? im guessing you wouldnt even care if the men had gfs?


    Karma's a bitch though ...
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    I've cheated in the past and the only reason I can put it down to is I'm insecure. I cheated because I needed reassurance from someone that I found attractive and who wasn't my boyfriend. I like to think I'm a little bit more grown up now and that I'd work on issues instead of cheating. I've been with my current boyfriend for 2 years and haven't cheated, or wanted to. I think this is because whenever we've had arguments or problems, I've worked through them with him instead of running into someone else's arms for reassurance and attention.

    I am extremely sorry and feel terrible about cheating, and I've learnt my lesson, having had a rather nasty taste of my own medicine.
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    (Original post by SillyMilly)
    LOL at your ignorence until you fall in love with a man and he does exactly the same to you do you have no compassion for the people youve hurt?? im guessing you wouldnt even care if the men had gfs?


    Karma's a bitch though ...
    I've been with a married man before and told his wife I was shagging him, was funny when she kicked him out, shame about the 2 kids involved though. I also stole another bloke off a girl, it's so fun
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    I've been with a married man before and told his wife I was shagging him, was funny when she kicked him out, shame about the 2 kids involved though. I also stole another bloke off a girl, it's so fun

    Your actually disgusting, the only one whose going to end up on their own is you who wants a girl who gives herself up so eaisly??

    I dont know how you can sleep at night atleast I can look my boyfriend in the eye and I truly trust him
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    Hmm I smell a troll...
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    (Original post by SillyMilly)
    Your actually disgusting, the only one whose going to end up on their own is you who wants a girl who gives herself up so eaisly??

    I dont know how you can sleep at night atleast I can look my boyfriend in the eye and I truly trust him
    I always get what I want, just gotta flutter my eye brows works everytime
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    Re: Why do girls/women cheat?
    The danger and the adventure.

    People just like forbidden fruit. That's why girls always end up wanting you when you're in a relationship and not wanting to touch you with a bargepole when you're single.

    Some girls also just aren't mature enough to be in relationships. Some want the good times and the candy without having to support and stand by their man when times are hard.
    Last edited by jblackmoustache; 30-07-2012 at 22:00.
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    (Original post by hot hot hot)
    I always get what I want, just gotta flutter my eye brows works everytime
    Doesn't work on me honey


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    I always get what I want, just gotta flutter my eye brows works everytime
    flutter your eyebrows???? oh god you sound a right catch fluttering your monobrow at all the guys
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    Doesn't work on me honey


    This was posted from The Student Room's iPhone/iPad App
    I am not interested in you sorry
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    Re: Why do girls/women cheat?
    (Original post by SillyMilly)
    flutter your eyebrows???? oh god you sound a right catch fluttering your monobrow at all the guys
    eye lashes i mean
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