[Anonymous]

I have found myself in a situation where I have to choose between two girls.

Girl A, I have known for a very long time, I know everything about her, she has been a friend for a very long time but nothing more, although I know she really likes me. My friends are telling me to go for her, she is around my age (22) she is also University educated, we have more things in common, we have similar personalities, we get along very well, she is fit! (even more than girl B), I get along very well with her friends, feel very comfortable around.

Girl B, I haven't known for as long, my friends also think she's good but recommend the other one more, I know she also really likes me, she is 19, slightly less things in common, she is average looking(not as pretty as the other one) and I am ok with her friends. However, for some reason I feel soo much more attracted to girl B, her presence makes my day, I feel more exited/shy around her. Even though all the factors for girlA outweigh girlB, I feel more for girlB.

I know if I do not act quick girl A will go as she has a lot of guys interested in her, but if I choose her I cannot go back to girl B and vice versa.

In short, what do I go for?

Logic, or love?

[EmilyAl]

I'd go for Girl A, you'll have so much more to talk about, she's around your age, but with Girl A, if it doesn't work then you'll have lost a good friend. But, is Girl B going to university or already at it, because long distance doesn't work...

[Anonymous]

It seems to me you only want to pick girl A cause she is wanted by many other guys and she'd seem like a prize. You;ve downplayed Girl B A LOT but surely yous must get on a lot and there must be something attractive about her for you to even consider her. I say if girl B makes your day, go for her.

[MancBoy]

Always the second one. Because if you liked A that much then you wouldn't even think twice about B.

[Mockery]

You're more familiar with girl A and therefore feel the way you do. Ask yourself, once you get more used to girl B will you regret it as you'll realise she wasn't the best option?

[ANIGAV]

[Bee3011]

Go for Love <3
Because they day opposites attract and it doesnt matter if you dont have a lot in common with Girl B because if you love her then it will work out and you will be happy with your decision in the end

[az08]

Have you slept with both of them?

If not, then I don't see how you can even put love into the equation or 'pick' between them. Surely its just a case of dating both of them, getting to know them more intimately, which would surely make the decision a lot easier?

[SugarPuffs]

(Original post by az08)
Have you slept with both of them?

If not, then I don't see how you can even put love into the equation or 'pick' between them. Surely its just a case of dating both of them, getting to know them more intimately, which would surely make the decision a lot easier?

Get to know girl B better and become closer friends, then see out of the two you'd prefer to go out with. If girl A is no longer available by then, be happy that you took your time to get closer to girl B. Don't go for girl A just because she's available and has lots of guys after her.