Getting chatted up by guys you don't like..
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Getting chatted up by guys you don't like..How do you deal with that familiar situation of trying to get rid of a guy you do not like? Sometimes they can't they the hint. Then they end up following you around all night and trying to dance up on you. Arghh.
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Re: Getting chatted up by guys you don't like..I find this hard as well. I've been indoctrinated in politeness so i find it really hard to just be straight with these guys because i don't want to be rude!
Luckily my friends are very well trained at rescue missions and be relied upon to bundle me away when they see something like this happens and to keep him away from me all night if necessary. -
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If its in a random place like a club, just tell them you have a boyfriend. If you have a male friend get them to pretend or even get a female friend to pretend they are your girlfriend. That makes them go away quickly enough
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Re: Getting chatted up by guys you don't like..There are two ways for you to handle this situation:
1) Instead of hinting, you could always be straight with them. Tell them straight up 'leave me alone FFS your annoying!
2) Tell him you will scream unless he leaves you alone. Scream 'this man is harassing me!' Then am sure he will make a runner HAHA
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Re: Getting chatted up by guys you don't like..THIS>
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Re: Getting chatted up by guys you don't like..I'm pretty sure that won't make them go away(Original post by MorrisseyForever)
If its in a random place like a club, just tell them you have a boyfriend. If you have a male friend get them to pretend or even get a female friend to pretend they are your girlfriend. That makes them go away quickly enough
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Re: Getting chatted up by guys you don't like..(Original post by MorrisseyForever)
If its in a random place like a club, just tell them you have a boyfriend. If you have a male friend get them to pretend or even get a female friend to pretend they are your girlfriend. That makes them go away quickly enough
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I have found that if you hint at lesbianism, they tend to be even more insistent on hanging out with you, on the off chance they get to see some hot girl-on-girl tongue action. Some men are disgustingly predictable
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Sometimes, and I don't like it and always feel bad afterwards but I can be a bit of a bitch about it. It just makes me feel awkward...
If they seem like nice guys, then I smile and walk away. Maybe have a hug.
If they are the typical lads I just turn my back and walk away.
If they are those cocky ***** who think they are Gods then I might frown at them a little or just shake my head.
I'll try and stop that though because it seems a bit douchey..
But some men just seem like such ***** in clubs! They don't act like human beings so I sometimes forget to treat them as such. -
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Re: Getting chatted up by guys you don't like..Like most guys i've probably been that guy once or a million times
(no use sugarcoating it)
and in a polite way tell them your not interested trust me its so much better that way saves the guys a lot of hassle and means he can move to a new prey (yeh we can sometimes be vile creatures), and you can get a good night saving him further embarrasement and stopping you from feeling like a cold hearted *****.
Or fart.
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