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  1. Scienceisgood's Avatar
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    How important are friends to you?
    Hey Guys;

    Well, I know this may seem like a daft question but how important are friends to you in your day to day life and how often do you see your friends?
    So, on a scale of 1-10 (10 being impossible to imagine life without them and 1 being I prefer to be by myself) how would you rate yourself?

    Personally, I rate friends as either the first or second most important thing in my life (I don't know what takes priority in my life, friends or family) :eek: - Does this make me a bad person?
    So, it is a very clear 10 for me. =)
  2. A.sniper's Avatar
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    Re: How important are friends to you?
    Having been to university, I've realised that friends are far more important when your younger and/or less mature. Priority 1 should be your career or studies so that you can get money to raise a family comfortably. Anyone who says or thinks otherwise is probably a failure who rationalises things to make themselves feel better.

    edit: in other words you should have friends who stimulate you to be more successful, not friends who drag you down (like most do).
    Last edited by A.sniper; 31-07-2012 at 09:33.
  3. Jake200493's Avatar
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    Re: How important are friends to you?
    10, but recently my friends who I went to Sixth Form with are being megabitches, so I'd say my two best mates and my best mate who lives in Wales 10, everyone else 1.
  4. HollyB_C's Avatar
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    I, unintentionally, ignore my friends - during holidays, weekends etc. - but the thought of being without them is a bit worrying.
  5. ceris's Avatar
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    Re: How important are friends to you?
    (Original post by Scienceisgood)
    Hey Guys;

    Well, I know this may seem like a daft question but how important are friends to you in your day to day life and how often do you see your friends?
    So, on a scale of 1-10 (10 being impossible to imagine life without them and 1 being I prefer to be by myself) how would you rate yourself?

    Personally, I rate friends as either the first or second most important thing in my life (I don't know what takes priority in my life, friends or family) :eek: - Does this make me a bad person?
    So, it is a very clear 10 for me. =)
    I think friends are very important to me and have a great social circle but don't feel the need to be around them all the time (unlike a lot of people in my area) to enjoy myself or validate myself.

    I also think you should surround yourself with friends with similar ambitions to yourself, ergo friends who will build you up rather than drag you down.
  6. Presenttime's Avatar
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    Re: How important are friends to you?
    Friends are more important to me than my family - I'm single but I think to think that I won't neglect my friends should I find a partner.
  7. desdemonata's Avatar
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    Re: How important are friends to you?
    Mmmhh as I'm moving away, I know that I won't keep in touch with some (read: most) of my friends, but I know of two that definitely will, and for me they definitely rank 9-10. Everyone else I do care about but have no illusions of how long we're going to keep in touch after my move.
  8. benkopite's Avatar
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    Re: How important are friends to you?
    My friends are very important to me - I have two that I absolutely love and would trust with my life. I grew up with them (well met them when I was 11 - i'm now 20)... I don't see them all the time. But the thought of not having them scares me.
  9. MRH94's Avatar
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    Re: How important are friends to you?
    Good friends are very important to me and I would do anything or them and vice versa. But then you have those 'friends' who are kinda just there and you talk to once in a while that aren't as important.
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