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  1. Ms_brown's Avatar
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    He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    Ive got a massive problem! I go to a local pub and have a guy friend who gets arsy whenever I talk to this guy I like. Thing is the one I like has a bad rep but I don't like being told who I can or cannot talk to... What do I do
  2. Ryan_94's Avatar
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    Either two things are happening:
    - you're guy friend likes you and is jealous
    OR
    - you're guy friend really disproves of the guy you like

    Bottom line is, you're just gonna have to ask him why he gets annoyed when you talk to this other guy!

    Good luck!
  3. Ms_brown's Avatar
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    (Original post by Ryan_94)
    Either two things are happening:
    - you're guy friend likes you and is jealous
    OR
    - you're guy friend really disproves of the guy you like

    Bottom line is, you're just gonna have to ask him why he gets annoyed when you talk to this other guy!

    Good luck!

    It's both
  4. kunoichi's Avatar
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    Since when did your guy friend control who you can or cannot talk to?

    Not really your friends business if you wanna talk to this other guy.
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    (Original post by Ms_brown)
    Ive got a massive problem! I go to a local pub and have a guy friend who gets arsy whenever I talk to this guy I like. Thing is the one I like has a bad rep but I don't like being told who I can or cannot talk to... What do I do
    Am sure he is just trying to look out for you, if he does really get 'arsy' everytime you talk to him, then there must be something really wrong about the guy you like...
  6. Ms_brown's Avatar
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    (Original post by Rationalist1)
    Am sure he is just trying to look out for you, if he does really get 'arsy' everytime you talk to him, then there must be something really wrong about the guy you like...
    Hes got a bad rep with women
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    (Original post by Ms_brown)
    Hes got a bad rep with women
    If he does, my opinion and probably everone else on here is to avoid him. Am sure you would'nt like to be played or used like the other woman or whatever. But then again its your choice, if you want to talk to him. And am sure you know to be careful with this guy. So I don't see how your guy friend can tell you what to do. You need to tell your guy friend, that you understand he is just looking out for you... But you kno what your doing and you know you will be CAUTIOUS
  8. Ms_brown's Avatar
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    (Original post by Rationalist1)
    If he does, my opinion and probably everone else on here is to avoid him. Am sure you would'nt like to be played or used like the other woman or whatever. But then again its your choice, if you want to talk to him. And am sure you know to be careful with this guy. So I don't see how your guy friend can tell you what to do. You need to tell your guy friend, that you understand he is just looking out for you... But you kno what your doing and you know you will be CAUTIOUS
    What if I really like this guy
  9. Millie228's Avatar
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    Don't get involved with a guy who "has a really bad rep with women". If you haven't become involved with him, it shouldn't be a problem. 3 billion men out there.

    Also, if you know for a fact that your male friend is romantically interested in you and it is not mutual, reconsider the friendship as it won't work long term.
  10. Rationalist1's Avatar
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    (Original post by Ms_brown)
    What if I really like this guy
    If you really like this guy then there is nothing that the people on TSR or your guy friend can do. You go for it, just beware on what could be lurking from the coner..
  11. Rationalist1's Avatar
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    (Original post by Millie228)
    Don't get involved with a guy who "has a really bad rep with women". If you haven't become involved with him, it shouldn't be a problem. 3 billion men out there.

    Also, if you know for a fact that your male friend is romantically interested in you and it is not mutual, reconsider the friendship as it won't work long term.
    Thats right! 3 Billion men out there, plus there a whole lotta women if your just a little curious OP lol. Aint that right Millie ?

    On a serious note, try your best to avoid him OP
  12. Ms_brown's Avatar
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    (Original post by Millie228)
    Don't get involved with a guy who "has a really bad rep with women". If you haven't become involved with him, it shouldn't be a problem. 3 billion men out there.

    Also, if you know for a fact that your male friend is romantically interested in you and it is not mutual, reconsider the friendship as it won't work long term.
    I already have spent the wkend with him last wk
  13. Millie228's Avatar
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    (Original post by Ms_brown)
    I already have spent the wkend with him last wk
    I can't help you get that time back. But you shouldn't be emotionally involved yet. It's actually not hard to cut him out, not at this stage.
  14. Ms_brown's Avatar
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    (Original post by Millie228)
    I can't help you get that time back. But you shouldn't be emotionally involved yet. It's actually not hard to cut him out, not at this stage.
    Trouble is I already am
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    Re: He gets arsy whenever I talk to him:(
    'oi friend, dont get arsy when I talk to this guy that I like'. Problem Solved
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