(Original post by Anonymous)
Hmm maybe i'll try that. The thing i'm so confused about is though, I really would say that i'm quite experienced and have been with 'bigger' guys than my boyfriend so he should be pretty painless really.. it sounds horrible but he's slept with a girl who is younger than me and says she's like a bucket compared to me..yeah niceee image, so I just thought I wouldn't be like this at this age.
No I don't think i've ever teared before, sounds painful though!
I think I will try the lube just to see what it's like! Last week I had an sti test which all came back fine, I should of said something really but I just find it really embarassing. The nurse kind of looks at you 'down there' so hopefully she would of noticed if something was wrong...
One other thing (seriously can't believe i'm saying all this - thank god for anon haha!) is we've been doing some quite complex positions, my legs were aching for ages from being kind of held like that for ages so maybe this position i'm not used to is making me sore, but it still doesn't really explain the tightness..
Thanks for the advice anyway, was really useful, if I ever have the guts to buy a dildo to help, do I buy a small one or ...? haha!