[Anonymous]

I've never been in a relationship before (i'm a 17 y.o male) and I don't really want to until I am older/ more independent.

The thing is, on the last three holidays I have been on, I always see someone who looks good and I am almost obsessed with seeing them. I never speak to them or anything, I just feel like I want to be with them. I also think about them often whilst on the holiday.

It's pretty annoying, as I've never ever met them before so I know I can't want to be with them as I don't know them. Also, a few days after I get home I am really not bothered any more and I go back to not being bothered about relationships.

Does anyone else get this or know why this happens?

[Anonymous]

I'm exactly the same, but I'm 16y.o girl. I've only been in very short relationships a few years ago, so nothing more than a kiss. But when I'm on holiday I get obsessed about meeting someone and being with them and I'm always on the lookout for someone on holiday.

[thetopnotch]

It might be that you just feel more relaxed when you're on holiday and that you're also away from home and work and its related stress.