Is it weird to be a virgin at 16?
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Re: Is it weird to be a virgin at 16?I think there's such a big peer pressure to lose your virginity that it can make you feel like if you're not doing it then you're weird or different. People think everyone's doing it so I should be too. I am at university and I can tell you there are so many inexperienced people at uni. You shouldn't do it just cos everyone else is. You definitely won't be the only virgin at 16. It won't be a problem if the guy you're with is the right guy. He'll understand. I am 20 and still a virgin and my boyfriend understands. If he doesn't, then he isn't good enough for you. Just take your time and do things when you're ready and comfortable. That way it'll be special.(Original post by jazzie14)
I've never actually had a boyfriend before because I guess I was a little to scared to commit, and one or two liked me more than I liked them. And i'm not the kind of girl that would be involved with a guy thats not my boyfriend. I'm moving back to England for sixth form after a brief time in the US and I feel like i'll be the only one thats not that experienced with boys and is still a virgin. Is that weird and do you think it would be a problem? Would boys like me less because i'm not experienced? -
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Re: Is it weird to be a virgin at 16?(Original post by Yung Mon£y)
Some people lose theirs before they hit double digits.
Ain't that right Vikki?
You lost your virginity at 9 years old?
Not really something to shout about dude.
You just can't keep away from me, can ya?
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Re: Is it weird to be a virgin at 16?Not weird at all. I'm in the same position as you, it's fine(Original post by jazzie14)
I've never actually had a boyfriend before because I guess I was a little to scared to commit, and one or two liked me more than I liked them. And i'm not the kind of girl that would be involved with a guy thats not my boyfriend. I'm moving back to England for sixth form after a brief time in the US and I feel like i'll be the only one thats not that experienced with boys and is still a virgin. Is that weird and do you think it would be a problem? Would boys like me less because i'm not experienced?
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Re: Is it weird to be a virgin at 16?Exactly. The amount of attractive, funny, intelligent, interesting girls i've met this year who hadn't done anything with a guy before they came to uni is staggering. I don't mean that in a bad way, but you would have expected them to have been in relationships for years. At 16 a lot of girls have barely started interacting with the opposite sex regularly never mind sleeping around.(Original post by Anonymous)
I think there's such a big peer pressure to lose your virginity that it can make you feel like if you're not doing it then you're weird or different. People think everyone's doing it so I should be too. I am at university and I can tell you there are so many inexperienced people at uni. You shouldn't do it just cos everyone else is. You definitely won't be the only virgin at 16. It won't be a problem if the guy you're with is the right guy. He'll understand. I am 20 and still a virgin and my boyfriend understands. If he doesn't, then he isn't good enough for you. Just take your time and do things when you're ready and comfortable. That way it'll be special.
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Re: Is it weird to be a virgin at 16?Your comprehension skills are as good as your photoshop skills....(Original post by Vikki1805)
You lost your virginity at 9 years old?
Not really something to shout about dude.
You just can't keep away from me, can ya?
If you don't want me showing 'that' photo to everyone, all you need to do is ask me not to post it. Then again, when you've over 50 photos up, why don't you want that one up? 
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Re: Is it weird to be a virgin at 16?You're sixteen, you should be too busy playing games and ****.(Original post by jazzie14)
I've never actually had a boyfriend before because I guess I was a little to scared to commit, and one or two liked me more than I liked them. And i'm not the kind of girl that would be involved with a guy thats not my boyfriend. I'm moving back to England for sixth form after a brief time in the US and I feel like i'll be the only one thats not that experienced with boys and is still a virgin. Is that weird and do you think it would be a problem? Would boys like me less because i'm not experienced? -
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Re: Is it weird to be a virgin at 16?I don't mind you being my 'fan' but harassing me every time you log on is getting a little too much.(Original post by Yung Mon£y)
Your comprehension skills are as good as your photoshop skills....
If you don't want me showing 'that' photo to everyone, all you need to do is ask me not to post it. Then again, when you've over 50 photos up, why don't you want that one up?
I've never photo-shopped anything and as I said before, I proved you wrong and ended the discussion but you're too self involved to even realise that.
I'd suggest you pipe down seeing as you've already received a warning, soon enough you'll just get banned kiddo.
