[Anonymous]

Basically I was seeing this girl for about 5/6 months, all was great and she was into me etc. anyway things started to go a little pear shaped and after about month of arguing we fell out massively and didn't speak for ages. Due tto her wanting to be just friends and me wanting more.

Eventually about 3 weeks ago I decided that I couldn't live without her being at least my friend so made so much effort talking to her again and now we spend most days together and speak everyday. She often puts me before her other friends.

(nearly finished now ha) She knows that I still have feelings for her and sometimes jokily winds me up about it (no hard feelings).

I just wanted to kknow if she still might feel something for me, the fact that she wants me in her life again and spends a lot of time with me, or whether im
blowing it up to be something it's not?

[amarih]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Basically I was seeing this girl for about 5/6 months, all was great and she was into me etc. anyway things started to go a little pear shaped and after about month of arguing we fell out massively and didn't speak for ages. Due tto her wanting to be just friends and me wanting more.

Eventually about 3 weeks ago I decided that I couldn't live without her being at least my friend so made so much effort talking to her again and now we spend most days together and speak everyday. She often puts me before her other friends.

(nearly finished now ha) She knows that I still have feelings for her and sometimes jokily winds me up about it (no hard feelings).

I just wanted to kknow if she still might feel something for me, the fact that she wants me in her life again and spends a lot of time with me, or whether im
blowing it up to be something it's not?

You got friendzoned so hard it ain't even comical kiddo


"Jokily winds me up about it"

"Spent most days together and speak every day"

[Guitarded]

If she just wants to be friends, she just wants to be friends. If you want to stay friends with her then you need to find a way to stop being attracted to her (easier said than done obviously - best thing to do is to find someone else. I'm going through a similar situation). Otherwise, if you can't take being friends without being able to take it further then you need to stop hanging out with her.

[JayLee]

Nope nothings goin to happen and yes it sounds harsh but from shes making jokes your not going to get anything move on


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[SugarPuffs]

You've already chosen to just be friends with her by getting back in touch and speaking with each other every day in a platonic fashion (no flirting).

Try spending more time with your other friends and less time with her, then maybe her feelings will change for you (absence makes the heart grow fonder )

If you can't accept that she only sees you as a friend and you still want more, then perhaps it's time to leave her behind.

[az08]

I was in a slightly similar situation - but reversed.

A girl who I was good friends with told me she liked me more than that. While I thought of her as a good friend, that was it, I just didn't feel more with her, to be honest I just wasn't attracted to her. She cut off contact for a while, understandably, and I started a relationship with someone else.

When we finally got back in contact after a while, with her over her feelings for me, we became friends again, and I definitely would put her before a few of my friends, and talk to her every day (now im single again anyway), but there is no way I would take things further with her.

[Anonymous]

Yeah it does seem that I've been friendzoned :/ can you be friendzoned after about 6 months of practically going out? I mean we did everything that a couple would...