My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!
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My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!Yes you read that right.. she gave me oral sex once and said that my ejaculate tasted so disgusting that she was almost sick. I consequently looked up ways to make it taste better, including avoiding certain foods and drinking plenty of water etc but she refuses to try it again unless I taste it first! What's more she still expects me to give her oral sex even when she utterly refuses to do the same for me. Our relationship is otherwise very good, but this seems like a completely unreasonable overreaction to me. Obviously, tasting my own sperm is not something that I am keen to do.. besides the general eww factor there's always the possibility that if we ever broke up, she would go around telling everyone (we have quite a few shared friends) about the time I.. well you know.
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Re: My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!I don't see how, it's not like I tried to make her eat her own downstairs juices!(Original post by Aisha~~)
Man the **** up. It's perfectly fair. -
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If she is that reluctant to try again, just move on from the subject. Your relationship is fine so not having oral wont detriment anything!
Give her space to rethink. If she has space she will rethink that crazy ask n maybe try again
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Re: My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!If you're too squeamish to taste YOURSELF (native to your body, know where it's been etc etc), then you can't expect her to be more bold.(Original post by Anonymous)
I don't see how, it's not like I tried to make her eat her own downstairs juices! -
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Re: My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!Well I wouldn't have a problem with that if she didn't still expect me to give her oral. I mean I wouldn't say that it tastes disgusting when I do go down on her, but it isn't particular pleasant either. It seems rather one-sided and unfair for me to have to do it for her, without her ever giving back. I can't help but feel that if this situation was the other way round, she would deny me any oral sex unless I yielded and agreed to reciprocate.(Original post by megfashion)
If she is that reluctant to try again, just move on from the subject. Your relationship is fine so not having oral wont detriment anything!
Give her space to rethink. If she has space she will rethink that crazy ask n maybe try again
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Well tell her you dont really want to do it either until she is ok with it again? You should talk bout these things(Original post by Anonymous)
Well I wouldn't have a problem with that if she didn't still expect me to give her oral. I mean I wouldn't say that it tastes disgusting when I do go down on her, but it isn't particular pleasant either. It seems rather one-sided and unfair for me to have to do it for her, without her ever giving back. I can't help but feel that if this situation was the other way round, she would deny me any oral sex unless I yielded and agreed to reciprocate.
The bf isnt allowed to do it on me (i have issues ;p ) so he doesnt expect me to do it for him. So say to her i wont expect u to do it to me so dont expect me to do it to you - if you want to then great, but if you dont want to then dont otherwise its not fair on you!
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Re: My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!Personally OP, unless you girlfriend agrees to let you spoon feed her her own love juice, I'd tell her where to go. I would also not give somebody oral sex on a regular basis if they consistently refused to do the same for me; good relationships are about give and take, if you're not careful you'll end up just being her bitch.
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Re: My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!If you're expecting her to taste yours then you should definitely taste it yourself! It doesn't taste nice, it'd be nice if you could understand
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Re: My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!Wait, so she still expects you to give her oral? loooool, why cant she taste it? She's the one with the problem with it, she doesnt need to give you oral, just a taste from a small sample, for all you know your cum could have tasted alright from the beginning to you.
I'd like to point out that if a guy said that his gf's juice was sickening, people would say that he doesnt deserve her, he's a pig, etc, etc, but if she thinks your cum is sickening, you are still expected to give her oral and "man the **** up". Personally, if i was told my cum is sickening, i'd be quite offended and she doesnt have the decency to even try a small sample herself (which is more practical btw) and still expects oral from you, then thatd piss me off. It's completely one way and not fair by any means. I personally would stand my ground and refuse giving her oral. If she doesnt like it she can jog on, for all i care. Its offensive yet understandable if she finds your cum sickening, but she's being totally unreasonable about it and i wouldnt be able to have a relationship with someone who i thought was unreasonable. I she came round and decided to taste a small sample, id happily give oral to her again, otherwise no, because its simply not fair. But hey thats just my opinion. -
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Re: My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!Just thinking that(Original post by Miss O.C.D)
LOL she totally got this from Sex and the City
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Re: My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!Sooooooo... I fail to see what the issue is here. She doesn't have to take a load to the mouth. Simply tell her when you're ready and get her to finish it with a hand.
Also, try it. Unless your diet literally consists of ****, I can't see how it can be that bad. Mine is fine. -
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Re: My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!Respect her sexual boundaries. Or (this sounds extreme, granted) get a new gf who likes oral sex.
If she doesn't like oral, so be it. or only get her to give you oral with a condom so she doesn't have to taste your cum.
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Re: My gf is refusing to give me oral sex unless I taste it myself!You have to squash this show of insubordination. If she won't suck your dick off her own volition I'd be on the lookout for her replacement.(Original post by Anonymous)
What on earth should I do?
