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How long would you wait to text a girl?

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  • View Poll Results: Ho long after meeting a girl would you text her?
    The same evening
    4
    22.22%
    The next day
    10
    55.56%
    2 days after
    3
    16.67%
    3 day rule
    1
    5.56%
    More than 3 days
    0
    0%
    I never actually call/text her
    0
    0%

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    Met on a night out and I gave him my number/he gave me his. At the end of the night he said he would text me and he seems like a genuine guy. How long is reasonable to wait before assuming he is not interested anymore
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    Why not just text him?
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    I don't really like playing games. Just text him if you want to.
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    (Original post by Electronica)
    Why not just text him?
    lol, i dont think it works like that
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    (Original post by NuckingFut)
    lol, i dont think it works like that
    Who wrote the rules on 'how it should work'?! You've been watching too much Disney.
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    i'd just wait. patience is under-rated
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    (Original post by NuckingFut)
    lol, i dont think it works like that
    I am guessing she has a phone and the capacity to send a text, so I think it could work however way she wants...

    Just text him, worse case scenario is he doesn't text back or says he isn't interested.
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    (Original post by Monkey magic)
    I am guessing she has a phone and the capacity to send a text, so I think it could work however way she wants...

    Just text him, worse case scenario is he doesn't text back so says he isn't interested.
    Exactly, then you move on I hate how as humans we other think **** rather than doing or not doing as we want.
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    Just assume he is not interested, so if/when he texts, it'll be a pleasant surprise; if he doesn't, you won't be disappointed.
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    If a guy hasn't text within three days I start to lose a bit of interest. Usually I then text them, if they have a good reason that's fine but if they don't respond it's time to move on

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