[Anonymous]

Basically, whenever I go out to bars or clubs and manage to get with a girl, a lot of the time they come up to me and start dancing with me before kissing me, but then afterwards they just walk away a lot of the time.

How can I get them to stay/should I follow them? Or is this something that just happens a lot of the time?

[bloodtobleed]

Not meant in an offensive way at all but are you good at kissing? or dancing?
I'd have to imagine that if it gets to a point where they're willing to kiss you in public, it's either some dare/bet to see how many erections they can give or you're doing something to scare them off.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by bloodtobleed)
Not meant in an offensive way at all but are you good at kissing? or dancing?
I'd have to imagine that if it gets to a point where they're willing to kiss you in public, it's either some dare/bet to see how many erections they can give or you're doing something to scare them off.

Haha I guessed someone would ask this, I have had a few girls tell me that I'm a very good kisser, one said that I was the best kisser she's had. Also a lot of the time they seem to come back for more, it's just then they normally either walk away or their friend drags them away after about 5 minutes or so.

I'm probably not a brilliant dancer haha, but usually I am a bit tipsy at least before I even try dancing.. I don't do anything particularly embarrassing I think haha

[bloodtobleed]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Haha I guessed someone would ask this, I have had a few girls tell me that I'm a very good kisser, one said that I was the best kisser she's had. Also a lot of the time they seem to come back for more, it's just then they normally either walk away or their friend drags them away after about 5 minutes or so.

I'm probably not a brilliant dancer haha, but usually I am a bit tipsy at least before I even try dancing.. I don't do anything particularly embarrassing I think haha

Well I've had girls tell me the same thing but I'd still question it xD
Honestly though I can't say I've had much experience in dancing with girls in clubs as it's not really somewhere that I go very often (only one in my town and it's terrible; next best place is 40 minutes drive away). But I'm the same in that I wouldn't dance without a couple of drinks in me. I've danced sober a few times and it's not normally a good outcome.

[jam277]

Do you talk to them after, I realised I'm an idiot and I don't even make convo, I'm just there kissing them in public, if I actually talked to them, I would have banged so many girls it would have been unbelievable. Just say my place or yours, if they're kissing you, they want you simple as.

[MacLean]

I guess this is different for every guy, but for me personally something I've come accross as a power combination is if me and a friend that end up talking to a girl and her friend.

Seems to be alot more successfull for me if there is just me and one friend and the girl is only her and one friend.

It works well because as long as the two 'couples' are having fun theres no one gonna get dragged away. I went out and and me and friend started talking to a pair of girls, kissed them in the pub had a wee dance in a club and ended up in their hotel that night. I've been out with a friend start talking to a pair of girls in the pub for a few hours and get a number out of it and go our seperate ways for that night.

For me it works out bettwer if you can actually converse with them for a bit. I've pulled girls in a club after dancing before and its kinda awkward cos its like you've kissed before you've barely spoke, so hows anything gonna happen in that situation - if anything does its gonna be a next morning who the **** are you kinda thing.
I think you do get the rare nymphs though who will go home and have sex without barely talking to you but I've never came accross one but a few friends have had some just redicliously lucky encounters like this where they've barely spoken and ended up in the sack with a girl, but I'm pretty sure they're very rare.

Again this is something which has worked for me but might be **** for you - worth a try though.

[Anonymous]

i often do this to guys usually because i am having a girly night out, so i want to actually spend the majority of the time with them rather than us all going off with boys for the whole night (especially when your friends have bfs they don't wanna just be left alone for ages) just ask for the girls number before she goes off and then text her 1/2 hour later or something to find her