Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?

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  1. Agenda Suicide's Avatar
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    (Original post by 9MmBulletz)
    Yeah, because you're a slag
    I just spat my drink out laughing haha.
  2. Desperate Prayer's Avatar
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    (Original post by Jones8180)
    Agreed!! I am extremely well known throughout the rugby team at the private school in our town :smug:

    This was posted from The Student Room's Android App on my GT-N7000
    "Shes a 5, but good if you want to take a load of after a match, god knows the sexual tension builds up in here with you guys!"

    *whips captain with jockstrap*
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hair; in as many places and as much as possible.
    Nose and ears? bumhole? How about a monobrow? Thats 75mm x 75mm of prime hair real estate right there!
  4. Desperate Prayer's Avatar
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    (Original post by riotgrrl)
    Being good with children (ridiculously hot), nice arms, chest hair, an interesting way of thinking, wearing a shirt, kindness, sense of humour, nice shoulders, being strong and a good voice (with a posh accent).

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RW1qHA5Hqwc&t=8m20s

    2/3 aint bad? aint baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad
  5. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    Physically all my previous ex's are totally different looking, I think girls are less into looks than guys are (just an opinion) although clearly we do judge too!

    I find accents sexy... but the biggest turn on for me probably is guys being...well - manly.

    Having a man who can help me and knows how to fix things etc really does something for me.

    And chivalry, I still melt when a date holds the door for me or pulls out a chair, it really is the small things
  6. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    Tall (6ft or over)
    Tan skin
    Dark hair
    Ambitious
    Good sense of humour
    Nice body (not too muscular though)
  7. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    Looks like that nursery job is finally gonna pay off.
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    His personality, his love, his passion & his commitment.
    Having a professional job is important too.


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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    (Original post by Desperate Prayer)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RW1qHA5Hqwc&t=8m20s

    2/3 aint bad? aint baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad
    Are you talking about Tom Cruise? :lolwut: Cos he is severely lacking in chest hair.
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    (Original post by riotgrrl)
    Are you talking about Tom Cruise? :lolwut: Cos he is severely lacking in chest hair.
    Nope, the real star of that movie.
  11. supergirl#1's Avatar
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    Mystery. That is all he needs. Oh, and maybe a suit
  12. CC2010's Avatar
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    Confidence, without a shadow of doubt. But I'm not talking arrogance/cockiness. A little bit of confidence goes a long way.

    Sense of humor. If he can make me laugh, we've hit it off.

    Finally, respect. Probably the weirdest thing ever but if he has respect for himself, others around him, and family - I'm pretty much a goner! There is something very appealing about a respectful guy, especially mixed in with the other 2 things. Don't judge me .


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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    A man that is strong minded and knows what he wants. I also love a nice smile and eyes! (blue & green)
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    Lots of "OMGZ stop being such a insecure weiner and be happy with what you have. What you gonna do, get bigger arms, be more arrogant, be more charming?" kinds of responses.

    Yes, is the answer. Human's look for partners, it is animal trait. I don't like it, but it's a competition for finding the best mate. If you can improve your chances by doing something simple like press-ups and growing stubble, why would you not?
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    Some one who has ambition and is doing something with their life! Biggest trait I look for.

    This was posted from The Student Room's Android App on my GT-I9300
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    (Original post by Billie-Rae)
    Some one who has ambition and is doing something with their life! Biggest trait I look for.

    This was posted from The Student Room's Android App on my GT-I9300
    Boom! What I look for in girls. I find nothing more disgusting than a girl who spends more time on her looks than improving her life. I had a gf during my gap year, who's only activities were following me to athletics (in Swindon, coincidnetally!), waiting for me to finish work, coming with me on errands etc. She showed none of her own ambition, so it ended. I love being able to be interested in someone else, and you can't do that if they have no ambition.
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    (Original post by SillyMilly)
    Really? I find christian grey a creep I find him very unsexy!! to me he's like one of those guys who instinctly sends shivers down my spine
    I agree with this. I think it goes without saying that if he was written the same but was portrayed as unattractive and/or a normal working class guy, then all these women who say he's their ideal guy would think he was a psycho.

    What I find sexy in a guy: Kindness, someone I can trust, respectful towards me and is honest. Not chavvy. Someone who prefers women with some standards over women who flash their underwear on the internet. Someone who is himself rather than changes to try and fit in with what he thinks that the people he's with may like. Someone who doesn't act like a child. Aesthetically I find broad shoulders sexy on men, but I wouldn't rule out a man who didn't have these. I'm not fussed on hair and eye colour as long as they were nice (I think it's probably pretty rare to find someone with ugly eyes though!). Dresses well (I don't mean high fashion or designer, just someone who dresses nicely and tidily without looking like an old man). Oh and I also find the smell of a nice aftershave really sexy to.
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    (Original post by Billie-Rae)
    Some one who has ambition and is doing something with their life! Biggest trait I look for.

    This was posted from The Student Room's Android App on my GT-I9300
    This to.
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    (Original post by Agenda Suicide)
    I just spat my drink out laughing haha.
    Haha but she had it coming

    Spoiler:
    Show
    in her mouth :awesome:
  20. Aisha~~'s Avatar
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    Re: Girls, what is sexy to you in a man?
    Threads like this always give me an over-inflated ego

    Arrogance is ultimately your fault, girls...
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