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Reply 40
Original post by kinglynx
How can i apply for independant student finance if i live abroad and im an international student? or am i being ignorant?

The people talking about student finance and moving out and means-tested vs non-means-tested didn't bother to read the bit about you being an international applicant. I don't know what you should do myself. Maybe you could apply for finance and economics courses at places that are as prestigious as possible to make your parents half happy, and then say that if you don't get in to somewhere fairly prestigious you'll consider doing Medicine? It will give them time to come round to the idea of you doing that course as the UCAS cycle goes round, even if you have no real intention of reapplying to do Medicine instead afterwards. If you win the part of the battle which allows you a year to try the finance application, maybe it'll soften them up a little for the second part of the battle (where you convince them to fund you).
Reply 41
Original post by kinglynx
i really dont want to go down the whole, im disowning you parents and ill live my own life, sorta thing...


Well unless you can somehow convince your irrational parents to support you then you have to decide what's more important to you.
Edit: international? Should have mentioned it in the first post, but it's almost impossible to pay the fees as an international without your parents help. It's just too much money to cough up on your own. All I can think of is getting sponsored by a firm and agreeing to their terms, which if they offer it, will be to work for them when you graduate.
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Reply 42
International places for medicine are very competitive and if you aren't enthusiastic with genuine reasons for wanting to study it, they won't give you an offer (unless you're very good at faking it). So you'll be wasting your time. If your parents just want you to have a high paying job, do they realise that it takes about 12 years to become a consultant and earn the top salaries? Why don't you just apply to LSE, and no where else. Tell your parents you got rejected from all your medicine places and just hope that LSE accept you.
Reply 43
I think that most of the medicine applicants are interviewed. If you don't really love your subject (and therefore, medicine), you run the risk of making it evident at interviews. Moreover, since medicine is one of the most competitive courses, if tutors notice that you don't really like it, you're very likely not to be offered a place. Last but not least, since LSE requires a good personal statement for finance (and since you will have a medicine one), in the very unlucky case of being rejected by those four Unis, you'd find yourself in big troubles.

Moral of the story: fight and chase *YOUR* dreams.
I know that this is very hard to do, but if you talk to your parents and explain them that you don't really like medicine, I'm sure they'll understand.
Reply 44
Original post by Ronove
The people talking about student finance and moving out and means-tested vs non-means-tested didn't bother to read the bit about you being an international applicant. I don't know what you should do myself. Maybe you could apply for finance and economics courses at places that are as prestigious as possible to make your parents half happy, and then say that if you don't get in to somewhere fairly prestigious you'll consider doing Medicine? It will give them time to come round to the idea of you doing that course as the UCAS cycle goes round, even if you have no real intention of reapplying to do Medicine instead afterwards. If you win the part of the battle which allows you a year to try the finance application, maybe it'll soften them up a little for the second part of the battle (where you convince them to fund you).


Hmmm i guess that might work, i mean they'd be reluctant to make me "waste" a year as such but maybe itll give them the hope that if i dont like it/make it i can go back to medicine. but they come up with this excuse that "do medicine first then we'll let you do whatever you want" ... why i asked?
they said "medicine you can only do when your young ,everything else you can do at any time" which is the biggest load of ************* ive ever heard...
Reply 45
Original post by tooosh
Well unless you can somehow convince your irrational parents to support you then you have to decide what's more important to you.
Edit: international? Should have mentioned it in the first post, but it's almost impossible to pay the fees as an international without your parents help. It's just too much money to cough up on your own. All I can think of is getting sponsored by a firm and agreeing to their terms, which if they offer it, will be to work for them when you graduate.


Yeah sorry i should have mentioned that!


How would i go about getting sponsored by a firm then? I mean my academics are pretty good, 8A*1A1B at IGCSE, and 5A's at AS (A2 next year eeek)
And that actually sounds good, i mean i have a guarenteed job where i can get experience...
Reply 46
Original post by Zebrajess
International places for medicine are very competitive and if you aren't enthusiastic with genuine reasons for wanting to study it, they won't give you an offer (unless you're very good at faking it). So you'll be wasting your time. If your parents just want you to have a high paying job, do they realise that it takes about 12 years to become a consultant and earn the top salaries? Why don't you just apply to LSE, and no where else. Tell your parents you got rejected from all your medicine places and just hope that LSE accept you.


How would they find out that i don't want to study it? Just wondering?

And that's one hell of a risk man, hence the whole thread hahaha.
Reply 47
Original post by alphil
I think that most of the medicine applicants are interviewed. If you don't really love your subject (and therefore, medicine), you run the risk of making it evident at interviews. Moreover, since medicine is one of the most competitive courses, if tutors notice that you don't really like it, you're very likely not to be offered a place. Last but not least, since LSE requires a good personal statement for finance (and since you will have a medicine one), in the very unlucky case of being rejected by those four Unis, you'd find yourself in big troubles.

Moral of the story: fight and chase *YOUR* dreams.
I know that this is very hard to do, but if you talk to your parents and explain them that you don't really like medicine, I'm sure they'll understand.


Yeah thats exactly what im thinking. At my interview they're gonna ask me if ive done any furthur reading to which my reply would be "LOL your kidding right?" :P
Im not scared talkin to my parents but it always , ALWAYS turns into an argument , so im just like, **** it then you know? Which is bad i know but its just , if you've ever talked to my parents then you'll see how stupid and illogical (unlogical?) what they say is. They always believe theyre right , regardless of what you say GRRRRRRRR
Original post by kinglynx

my question is, is it worth making my PS towards just LSE so i can get into my dream place or should i go for medicine and risk living a boring daunting life :/


Well if you want to avoid boredom; finance is obviously the way to go.




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Reply 49
Original post by kinglynx
Hey guys,
my parents want me to study medicine so i will be applying to 4 universities for medicine (as ucas only allows you to apply to medicine at 4 universities)

thus i have my last option to fullfill my dream of doing finance.

so im thinking my best chances are at LSE as it has an international faculty of 65%

however, my personal statement will be all about medicine, and LSE wants a really good personal statement.

my question is, is it worth making my PS towards just LSE so i can get into my dream place or should i go for medicine and risk living a boring daunting life :/


You should really be applying for what you want to apply for. I understand how overbearing some parents can be but you have to logically talk them through your options, job prospects, and ultimately what you want and WHY it's good. It's not as if you're dropping out of school to pursue a career as an exotic dancer- finance is pretty academic too!

Have you already spoken to them about something besides Medicine?

If you've been sensible about having an adult conversation with them, and you still do not have any other choice but to apply for medicine...Durham allows you to submit an alternative personal statement for a different degree course. This may be more advisable then clearly automatically getting rejected from LSE with a medicine personal statement.

Also I'd just like to say that just because you have a good personal statement won't guarantee you entry into LSE either.
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Reply 50
Original post by hassi94


My advice? Man up. My parents wanted me to study medicine, I was on board with the idea until Year 12ish. Then despite all the pushing from their side and their discontent for my decisions - I told them to shove it and applied for maths.


This.

Good for you btw Hassi, similar story with my parents, except they wanted me to go in the military.
Reply 51
Original post by kinglynx
They always believe theyre right , regardless of what you say GRRRRRRRR


I had a similar problem with my parents. It frustrated me that they thought they knew what was best for me and I really got annoyed by it. One day I decided not to take it. I sat down with them, on the eve of college enrollment and I told them 'I'm going to do what I want, it may not be the right thing, it may not be the best thing for me, however it's what I want to do, it's the career I want to pursue. And if you're not going to support me with it, then I'm not going to talk to you about it, I've researched and I know what I'm getting myself in for, I'm don't need your opinion.'
I didn't speak to them about my career choices at first, but since then they have came around and never contradicted my actions and supported everything I wish to do. I understand that they just want what is best for me, however most parents don't understand that we are capable of deciding that for ourselves. Sit them down and talk to them, they will understand. And if they don't understand, they don't have a say in the matter because you don't need their opinion, or at least, you don't need to live your life by it.
Reply 52
Original post by zincoff
You should really be applying for what you want to apply for. I understand how overbearing some parents can be but you have to logically talk them through your options, job prospects, and ultimately what you want and WHY it's good. It's not as if you're dropping out of school to pursue a career as an exotic dancer- finance is pretty academic too!

Have you already spoken to them about something besides Medicine?

If you've been sensible about having an adult conversation with them, and you still do not have any other choice but to apply for medicine...Durham allows you to submit an alternative personal statement for a different degree course. This may be more advisable then clearly automatically getting rejected from LSE with a medicine personal statement.

Also I'd just like to say that just because you have a good personal statement won't guarantee you entry into LSE either.


yeah i told them i wanted to do finance but they say i change my mind 100 times cause im a kid and i dont know what i want.. which is stupid because i wanted to do finance for the past year and a half now (before i was thinking computer engineering or graphic design but i decided against it because of how difficult it was getting a job in it (my cousin does it))
thanks for the tip on durham ill definitly look into it

I know its not definite but i feel i have a good chance of getting in,
Reply 53
Original post by lsaul95
I had a similar problem with my parents. It frustrated me that they thought they knew what was best for me and I really got annoyed by it. One day I decided not to take it. I sat down with them, on the eve of college enrollment and I told them 'I'm going to do what I want, it may not be the right thing, it may not be the best thing for me, however it's what I want to do, it's the career I want to pursue. And if you're not going to support me with it, then I'm not going to talk to you about it, I've researched and I know what I'm getting myself in for, I'm don't need your opinion.'
I didn't speak to them about my career choices at first, but since then they have came around and never contradicted my actions and supported everything I wish to do. I understand that they just want what is best for me, however most parents don't understand that we are capable of deciding that for ourselves. Sit them down and talk to them, they will understand. And if they don't understand, they don't have a say in the matter because you don't need their opinion, or at least, you don't need to live your life by it.


hmmm well i guess im going to have to sit down and talk to them about this... because i want to atleast try to get them to see my view. itll probably turn into an argument like it always does but oh well. just need to pluck up the courage to do it... the crappy thing is knowing my dad he'll probs threaten to throw me out or something cause in his opinion the only degree worth paying for is medicine -_-
Reply 54
Original post by kinglynx
How would they find out that i don't want to study it? Just wondering?

And that's one hell of a risk man, hence the whole thread hahaha.


When they interview you. If you aren't really enthusiastic, it will show. When they ask you why you picked medicine, you'll either not be able to answer, or have a rehearsed answer ready, neither of which they particularly like. When they ask you what your work experience showed, again you won't come across enthusiastic if you found it all 'boring'. And you'll have to do a lot of research, as some ask about the structure of the NHS, the GMC, they ask what MMC is. And if you aren't interested, will you even bother to research all this? The competition is intense, with most unis only having 20-30 places available, and they'll be many more applicants a lot more passionate and well researched than you.

You might get lucky and get a place, but you'll have to put in a lot of work to prepare answers for the questions and be good at faking enthusiasm.
Don't do medicine just because your parents want you to!:facepalm:
Do what you want to do!
Reply 56
Original post by Zebrajess
When they interview you. If you aren't really enthusiastic, it will show. When they ask you why you picked medicine, you'll either not be able to answer, or have a rehearsed answer ready, neither of which they particularly like. When they ask you what your work experience showed, again you won't come across enthusiastic if you found it all 'boring'. And you'll have to do a lot of research, as some ask about the structure of the NHS, the GMC, they ask what MMC is. And if you aren't interested, will you even bother to research all this? The competition is intense, with most unis only having 20-30 places available, and they'll be many more applicants a lot more passionate and well researched than you.

You might get lucky and get a place, but you'll have to put in a lot of work to prepare answers for the questions and be good at faking enthusiasm.


i see.. well i dont mean for this to come out the wrong way but im a pretty good bull****ter hahahaha messing messing.... but now that you have mentioned that i think i will research some more things about the NHS, GMC and MMC (whatever that is LOL)
i think i shall read one of my dads medical books too... might as well start preparing for the worst!!

also im going to send a second personal statement to durham, i may have a chance at finance!!!

is durham a good university however? how is the area?
Reply 57
Original post by kinglynx
i see.. well i dont mean for this to come out the wrong way but im a pretty good bull****ter hahahaha messing messing.... but now that you have mentioned that i think i will research some more things about the NHS, GMC and MMC (whatever that is LOL)
i think i shall read one of my dads medical books too... might as well start preparing for the worst!!

also im going to send a second personal statement to durham, i may have a chance at finance!!!

is durham a good university however? how is the area?


Durham has a good reputation and always comes out high on league tables in general. Only beaten by Oxbridge. I don't know specifically for finance if it's good.
Reply 58
Original post by Zebrajess
Durham has a good reputation and always comes out high on league tables in general. Only beaten by Oxbridge. I don't know specifically for finance if it's good.


oooo thanks for the heads up! :smile:

ill definitly look into this options, it seems the most viable
Reply 59
Original post by kinglynx
oooo thanks for the heads up! :smile:

ill definitly look into this options, it seems the most viable


Would your parents let you study finance there then?

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