Why do guys go out clubbing to 'pull'

Fail to prepare and prepare to fail.

If you do it right, you will pull more often than not, and pulling is rarely disappointing, because it leads to sex.

Care to give some advice?

From a girls perspective, I can always spot the guys who are trying too desperately to pull a mile off and it's a complete turn off. You either have to be subtle about it or put having a good time with your mates then that second. You'll find it's easier to find someone that way.


I usually go out to have good times with my friends more than pull. It's weird because the times where I'm not looking to pull I actually do, and those times I am I don't...

what's pulling? :/

I thought that I would try going to a club once on my own...I just stood there, still! I thought I'd say hello to a girl and then nothing. Terrible...I doubt I want to go back to one, she probably hardly heard me anyway.

The type of place I like is a place where you can chat, the last one I was at was in the jungle, a nice club/bar open air. Pretty nice.

I don't know whether to cringe or congratulate you at the fact you went to a club on your own!

Pulling is easy, however getting her in your bed is harder. Which is why you need to suggest sex without sounding like a dick. If she makes an excuse, simply move onto the next. I find it's like a game, the hunt it much funner than the actual kill. In addition don't make pulling the only goal of the night, actually have fun.

Anyone telling you looks doesn't count is just an idiot, looks means everything in a club, which is why i pull and one of my mates rarely pulls, and hes not lacking in banter, he just looks like Diags from towie.

I don't know whether you meant that in a nice or horrible way.

Nice, but slightly confused way!

Come on lads pull .... to me, to you, to me, to you ......

Jokes aside, the guys above are right! Many do go out to just pull. But like with any venture, success is never guarenteed. If you're on a night out, you'll soon realise that you're surrounded by people your age that are looking for pretty much the same thing - to meet someone. So, its one of the better opportunities to meet a good looking girl and strike up a good conversation, unlike for example on the train or bus when people are trying to get somewhere.

Some misunderstand the whole night out thing and think its simply about finding a girl to sleep with. These foolish people should be directed to the nonsense that is Geordie Shore for further directions on how to proceed.

He's got guts. But damn, going to a club without another person must be daunting, I can understand going to a bar or a pub(can just make up the excuse of watching the footie or something ), but a club.

Man, I haven't pulled a stranger in probably 3 or more years (I think). No idea why thing's have turned out like this but apparently it's just not possible for me to go up to someone on a dancefloor and just make out with them anymore despite having the 'intention' to pull a lot of the time. Messed up.

All the girls in my flat last year brought bk different guys weekly....lets just say the noise was unbearable......

I don't want to end up like you. I find having the intention to pull best when you're with your mates who are all with the intention to pull(at least 3 people or more regardless of gender) people call us dicks, but it's a challenge and it makes up a good night laughing at your friends failing to pull a girl.

Umm... thanks.

Vile! ...but each to their own I guess.

Anyone telling you looks doesn't count is just an idiot, looks means everything in a club, which is why i pull and one of my mates rarely pulls, and hes not lacking in banter, he just looks like Diags from towie.