[HistoryGeek93]

If she doesnt reply. Get on with your life.... Im.sure theres other parts of.your life.other than this situation

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[Anonymous]

(Original post by HistoryGeek93)
If she doesnt reply. Get on with your life.... Im.sure theres other parts of.your life.other than this situation

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At this moment, this is the draining thing - because of my own emotional state and things going on at home, it's either I deal with this, go out for a walk or listen to my parents shouting and trying to resolve their marital issues.

[HistoryGeek93]

(Original post by Anonymous)
At this moment, this is the draining thing - because of my own emotional state and things going on at home, it's either I deal with this, go out for a walk or listen to my parents shouting and trying to resolve their marital issues.

Take up a sport or hobby then

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[Anonymous]

(Original post by HistoryGeek93)
Take up a sport or hobby then

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Crap, I'm showing the estate agent around today. I'll need to sort this out :/

I do weightlifting, but it's at home, sometimes I go swimming, but it's at home. I could escape for a couple of hours with my friends.

[HistoryGeek93]

You swim.at home #welljel. No but seriously. Try a martial art. Gets u out and you can release your emotions

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[ct2k7]

(Original post by HistoryGeek93)
You swim.at home #welljel. No but seriously. Try a martial art. Gets u out and you can release your emotions

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I used to do Karate - well she doesn't know that I forgot about that (this was about a decade ago though)

[HistoryGeek93]

Take it back up, then x

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[ct2k7]

(Original post by HistoryGeek93)
Take it back up, then x

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I think I will - I need to find my record log though - something for me to do

[HistoryGeek93]

Good plan. Best of luck x

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[9MmBulletz]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Let me clarify, her status on Facebook is single. Mine is "in a relationship". She knows that people come on to me, she says that she's fine with that. Personally, I am not fine with that. Girls, if they see my facebook relationship status, often seem to see this as some sort of game or a challenge. I've told her this, and I've said that there's only room for one girl in my life at this moment. When the time comes, maybe one or two more girls, our children. She's fine with that I generally avoid interaction with girls other than my girlfriend, often because I am of a very receptive nature. Somethings, which I may say can be misinterpreted by other girls, as interest. I mostly keep my conversations blunt and poignant so as not to infer any confusion.

My own lack of experience with girls is where I can get caught out.

A conversation like this:

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which is what we had, I wouldn't think that she would try to do anything. In fact, that conversation sprouted from us talking about my sexuality.

I never end a conversation without it being ended properly - it's habit, but also, I don't want to appear rude to people.

I believe that I, infact misinterpreted our conversations for what would appear to be silly talk. She's always poke fun at me. Sometimes, I thought she was drunk because half of the stuff she was saying didn't even make sense.

Note, that in this case, I was fraped. I do believe I deleted the message that was posted on her wall.

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Transsexuals can't have children

[PlanetTea]

(Original post by ct2k7)
Why - because I was panicking - the fact that she was able to get my home number and those details was enough to set me in precedent. It didn't help that I was under stress itself at the time due to the things going on, specifically my exam the next day, and my parent's potential divorce.

I'm sorry but this still doesn't explain why you changed your relationship status. What does it matter if she is able to get your home number? I suspect you can find that in any phone book or ask a friend. Why is this an issue?

[Anonymous]

(Original post by PlanetTea)
I'm sorry but this still doesn't explain why you changed your relationship status. What does it matter if she is able to get your home number? I suspect you can find that in any phone book or ask a friend. Why is this an issue?

This number has been ex directory for a VERY long time, as long as I have known it.

I don't release my home telephone number to anyone, under any circumstances. The closest people will get is my mobile number.

[ct2k7]

(Original post by 9MmBulletz)
Transsexuals can't have children

We wanted to adopt.

[Clare12]

(Original post by ct2k7)
We wanted to adopt.

Then why be bothered about your sperm count?


C12 -x-

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Clare12)
Then why be bothered about your sperm count?


C12 -x-

Initially, we wanted to go through surrogacy, but then we started talking about adoption.

We open to either. I would personally prefer to go through the surrogacy route.

[MelissaBabe]

Oh for god sake.. I swear this is just a joke..

It's sounds like something off eastenders..

Open your eyes OP

That chat with your 'girlfriend' you sent us, if you didn't tell us it was your gf we wouldn't be any the wiser..

You've had sex, you've been going out a year, you're not exactly lovey dovey with each other are you?

one minute you were never very good at school but your headmaster loved you? And then you don't like the attention but you are a very popular person? None of this adds up OP?!?!?!? You expect people on here to help you but your only telling bits of a story.. I would love to hear what this 'psycho' has to say...

This 'girlfriend' clearly has no feeling for you, and your friends are possibly right, it sounds like she was taking you for a ride.. If you've been together for a year and were friends before she must know if she loves you.. She probably realised as a friend that you were an easy ride and that she could manipulate you and so she did... I know you may 'love' her but I think you'll be better off all round if you terminate this relationship ASAP!! I mean who on god's earth after being with someone for a year won't change their status, I'd go mad after a fortnight let alone a year..


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[ct2k7]

(Original post by MelissaBabe)
Oh for god sake.. I swear this is just a joke..

It's sounds like something off eastenders..

Open your eyes OP

That chat with your 'girlfriend' you sent us, if you didn't tell us it was your gf we wouldn't be any the wiser..

You've had sex, you've been going out a year, you're not exactly lovey dovey with each other are you?

one minute you were never very good at school but your headmaster loved you? And then you don't like the attention but you are a very popular person? None of this adds up OP?!?!?!? You expect people on here to help you but your only telling bits of a story.. I would love to hear what this 'psycho' has to say...

This 'girlfriend' clearly has no feeling for you, and your friends are possibly right, it sounds like she was taking you for a ride.. If you've been together for a year and were friends before she must know if she loves you.. She probably realised as a friend that you were an easy ride and that she could manipulate you and so she did... I know you may 'love' her but I think you'll be better off all round if you terminate this relationship ASAP!! I mean who on god's earth after being with someone for a year won't change their status, I'd go mad after a fortnight let alone a year..


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I am weak. I am very weak.
My headmaster loved me, I believe, for the qualities I had as a person. I was described as a person who was harsh, but fair and just. I always placed my integrity above my own needs and wants.

If you've ever been the centre of attention, you know what comes with it - and it isn't something I liked. I dreaded having to go down to the fields simply because I ended up with a large crowd of people around me.

Maybe my girlfriend did take me for a ride. I won't know, for my love is blind, and I will always see the good in a person.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by MelissaBabe)
Oh for god sake.. I swear this is just a joke..

It's sounds like something off eastenders..

Open your eyes OP

That chat with your 'girlfriend' you sent us, if you didn't tell us it was your gf we wouldn't be any the wiser..

You've had sex, you've been going out a year, you're not exactly lovey dovey with each other are you?

one minute you were never very good at school but your headmaster loved you? And then you don't like the attention but you are a very popular person? None of this adds up OP?!?!?!? You expect people on here to help you but your only telling bits of a story.. I would love to hear what this 'psycho' has to say...

This 'girlfriend' clearly has no feeling for you, and your friends are possibly right, it sounds like she was taking you for a ride.. If you've been together for a year and were friends before she must know if she loves you.. She probably realised as a friend that you were an easy ride and that she could manipulate you and so she did... I know you may 'love' her but I think you'll be better off all round if you terminate this relationship ASAP!! I mean who on god's earth after being with someone for a year won't change their status, I'd go mad after a fortnight let alone a year..


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I note that I'm much easier when I'm with her in person. Other people have noticed this - when I'm alone, I can be very cold.

What psycho are you talking of?

We had been friends between February and October. In October, we met for the first time, and she changed, she started to retreat. We met again in November, and we kissed. By that time, we were flirting a lot, and anyone could see it from a mile away. But s(he) was confused at the time, as was I. Now I know what I want, and how I will get it.

[Anonymous]

I have seriously had enough of things like this:

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[Rock Fan]

Tune in for tomorrow's show on Jeremy Kyle to find out the next part to this saga.