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    To anyone getting bullied in school please read this...
    We just had a reunion at my school and I just got back from it.

    I won't write too much but throughout secondary school I was bullied extensively by a group of 4 people. I tried telling the teachers and the principal but they didn't really seemed bothered and so there was nothing I could do to stop it,

    Anyway, today I found out that of the 4 people that made my life hell for 7 years:

    1) Came out as a lesbian a few months ago and now works as a waitress earning minimum wage and is in a relationship with a chain smoking, alcoholic divorced mother of 5 children who is 18 years older than her and unemployed. This girl is 19 and made my life absolute hell.

    2) Literally lives in his parents basement, is unemployed and has 2 kids from different women. He is 21 and is allegedly a heroin addict.

    3) Failed his BTEC course several times and is now in his 4th year with this being his last chance. Also failed Maths and English GCSEs and has a long term girlfriend who looks like a tranny. Is 22 years old and of course unemployed.

    4) Got married as soon as he left school and has a son. He's in the middle of getting divorced and is of course unemployed and lives in a council flat.

    Me= After high school I lost 30kg in the summer, cleared up my acne and went to a great college where I achieved AAB in my A levels and I'm now about to start my first term in a top 5 business school in the country. I have a beautiful girlfriend, great family/friends and got back from the best holiday you could possibly have. Please don't ever give up, your time will come. I had a friend attempt suicide because of these ***** and he's now in a similar position to me and couldn't be more content with his life.

    I feel like the happiest mother****** in the world right now.
  2. SaharaDesert's Avatar
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    Re: To anyone getting bullied in school please read this...
    Good on you
  3. cl_steele's Avatar
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    Karmas a bitch Good on you though chap!
  4. LaurenPhilippa's Avatar
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    Excellent story!

    As Frank Sinatra said..."the best revenge is massive success".
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    Its not nice what they did to you, but they still don't deserve this. You shouldn't take pleasure in their downfall but concentrate on making your life as good as it can get
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    Big up man, good to see karma do what it does best
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    Re: To anyone getting bullied in school please read this...
    This is what makes me tempted to go to a reunion if one ever happens for any of my schools. It will be interesting to see what people have done with their lives. I got bullied quite a bit, and I am very intrigued to see how life has turned out for those people.
  8. Horatio-'s Avatar
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    I'm glad you've found happiness!

    But as someone said don't bother with them and their downfalls. Tbh you don't know what they're going through.


    I'd be more interested to hear about how they reacted to you!
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    (Original post by LaurenPhilippa)
    Excellent story!

    As Frank Sinatra said..."the best revenge is massive success".
    To be fair as he was involved with the mafia the real line is :

    "the best revenge is massive success. Which allows you to hire some goons to beat the **** out of them"
  10. Onion man's Avatar
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    To be honest, I've been alienated and bullied all my life. And from what I've heard all my bullies are spoilt rotten and are pretty damn happy with their lives. So where's my break?

    I'm 18 by the way.
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    (Original post by Onion man)
    To be honest, I've been alienated and bullied all my life. And from what I've heard all my bullies are spoilt rotten and are pretty damn happy with their lives. So where's my break?

    I'm 18 by the way.
    Karma likes to take it's time.
  12. zz_'s Avatar
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    Don't believe this at all. And if it's true you sound like a ****.

    props for trying to give hope to those being bullied but this thread...
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    it's good that you feel better now but these are 4 **** ups that have spawned little baby ****-ups that will probably all be a drain on society their whole lives. that's not something to celebrate really, you're going to be paying for people like them when you're earning a wage.
    Last edited by SnoochToTheBooch; 20-09-2012 at 01:58.
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    For some reason, I sympathise with these former bullies. I couldn't celebrate the misery of another human being.
    They must have already had major issues hence the bullying. Congrats on your current success but show some more humility. I'm not sure why current victims of bullying should cling to the randomness of physics. What happened to one victim may not happen to another.
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    (Original post by Rihanna1)
    Its not nice what they did to you, but they still don't deserve this. You shouldn't take pleasure in their downfall but concentrate on making your life as good as it can get
    This.

    OP comes across as rather arrogant tbh.
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    I'm really happy everything is working for you right now but this is all a bit sanctimonious.
  17. for_healing_only's Avatar
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    Yeahhhh, this is not going to happen for everyone, more often then not the bullies will not even remember you after a few years and will more than likely be living a decent life. While the person who was bullied has probably been hoping for their utter failure for years.

    One of my friends from Secodnary school was a massive ass to people and he is doing great, has a great fiance and has an awesome job. While one of the guys he bullied is a mess and still lives with his parents and is a drug addict (I honestly don't know how much of a drug addict he is as I never spoke with the guy, but when I visit my home town my Grandparents like to give my the latest town gossip and try to guilt me about not curtailing my friends when I was younger)
    Last edited by for_healing_only; 20-09-2012 at 06:43.
  18. goape's Avatar
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    Re: To anyone getting bullied in school please read this...
    I dont blame OP one bit for raising a few smiles at the misfortune of his former bullies. Easy for a keyboard warrior call him arrogant or bad for raising a few smiles but if those people were in the exact same situation as the OP i'd bet they would react the same
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    We just had a reunion at my school and I just got back from it.

    I won't write too much but throughout secondary school I was bullied extensively by a group of 4 people. I tried telling the teachers and the principal but they didn't really seemed bothered and so there was nothing I could do to stop it,

    Anyway, today I found out that of the 4 people that made my life hell for 7 years:

    1) Came out as a lesbian a few months ago and now works as a waitress earning minimum wage and is in a relationship with a chain smoking, alcoholic divorced mother of 5 children who is 18 years older than her and unemployed. This girl is 19 and made my life absolute hell.

    2) Literally lives in his parents basement, is unemployed and has 2 kids from different women. He is 21 and is allegedly a heroin addict.

    3) Failed his BTEC course several times and is now in his 4th year with this being his last chance. Also failed Maths and English GCSEs and has a long term girlfriend who looks like a tranny. Is 22 years old and of course unemployed.

    4) Got married as soon as he left school and has a son. He's in the middle of getting divorced and is of course unemployed and lives in a council flat.

    Me= After high school I lost 30kg in the summer, cleared up my acne and went to a great college where I achieved AAB in my A levels and I'm now about to start my first term in a top 5 business school in the country. I have a beautiful girlfriend, great family/friends and got back from the best holiday you could possibly have. Please don't ever give up, your time will come. I had a friend attempt suicide because of these ***** and he's now in a similar position to me and couldn't be more content with his life.

    I feel like the happiest mother****** in the world right now.
    Cleared up your acne?.. How in God's name did you do that? ...you make it seem so easy :confused: .... Not to ignore your other achievements, congratulations!!!
  20. zz_'s Avatar
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    Re: To anyone getting bullied in school please read this...
    (Original post by goape)
    I dont blame OP one bit for raising a few smiles at the misfortune of his former bullies. Easy for a keyboard warrior call him arrogant or bad for raising a few smiles but if those people were in the exact same situation as the OP i'd bet they would react the same
    Nah. I imagine it is quite satisfying to know that they aren't doing as well as him but I couldn't be rejoicing in it like this guy.

    Looks like a pack of lies anyway though.
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