I say something small he doesn't like and he ignores me for hours.

all the people on TSR are completely ignoring the OP. She loves him, she wanted advice about an issue in her relationship. Honestly, if half the posts on TSR are to be believed we would dump someone the moment they sneezed.

OP, in all honesty, he probably doesn't see it as such a big deal. He is a young guy, it's hard to mature quickly and do everything right. I'm sure this is just one small issue in your relationship.

Every relationship issue is either about compromise or ending the relationship. If you don't feel it's cause to end it, then you have to find compromise between you. Try giving some room on your side, otherwise he'll resist subconsciously.

E.g. Ask him to care/text a bit more with the promise that if he does you'll be a lot more relaxed about it, or that you'll try to do something he wants.

He isnt a child. And he does compromise a lot!


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Right well obviously you didn't come here asking for advice else you wouldn't be replying to everyone telling them they are wrong. You're both as feeble minded as each other it seems.

A bit uncalled for frankly. She asked for advice on an issue, and everyone tells her to dump someone? End a relationship 'Because Internet told me so?'

Its like if I came and posted ' What's the best chocolate ' and everyone posted 'You shouldn't eat chocolate it's bad for you', it's not really relevant.

No need to insult a woman asking for help, a bit low.

I was after other people who have experienced this and how to deal with it.


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There aren't better out there! I love him! He's my boyfriend and has been for many years. We have something special together.


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Wow you sound incredibly pathetic. The only reason you haven't separated is because you are afraid you won't find someone else, so you want to stick to him, even though he is clearly treating you like dirt.

What a perfect example of the sunk cost fallacy.

Wow you sound incredibly pathetic. The only reason you haven't separated is because you are afraid you won't find someone else, so you want to stick to him, even though he is clearly treating you like dirt.

What a perfect example of the sunk cost fallacy.

WTF? He has been in a relationship for three years, I think he's ready for one.


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I love him though. He's the only guy I've ever been with. I don't want to leave him for such a small reason. I just want him to stop it. I couldn't leave him, I don't have the strength to. He knows that.

Op, you may want to request this thread closed. TSR is not a good place for relationship discussions, people get really nasty and cruel when they're hidden. Plus most of them seem to be forever alone single people who are taking out their pent up anger on you.

Yeah he does it a lot and I doubt he will stop now. I can't just leave him though, I've been with him for years. I find it so hard to ignore him back. :/

Dump the a**hole.