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I prefer women with imperfections (eg. cellulite, stretch marks). Am I strange?

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I'm the same! It's always the imperfections in people that I find really attractive. Like a crooked nose or crazy hair. I never used to find my boyfriend particularly attractive until I started looking at him in more of a romantic light, now all of the physical traits that some would say are 'ugly' I absolutely love! Imperfections are what make us unique and interesting.

Reply 21

flyylikejetz

i think accepting is a good thing to do because ordinary women aren't like the celebrities etc...
But i do find it slightly strange that you actually like it
But hey, each to their own :rolleyes:

Reply 22

Dragonfly07

I'm the same with men. There's a trend with attractiveness and personality type. Generally attractive people have to work less hard on their personalities in order to attract people so they tend to be more arrogant.

I think in the end I just ended up associating attractiveness with bad personalities (which of course isn't always the case but hey) and now I'm mostly attracted to average people.

That being said I have a boyfriend with the rare combination of attractiveness and great personality, so I came out lucky.

Reply 23

snowman77

thank you! :hugs:

Original post by mission2014

Snowman... I think I'm loving your posts you're a great guy and I seriously hope you decide on what to do as a career cz you deserve it :smile:

xx

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Reply 24

ForgettingWhatsername

Every girl on TSR is going to be after you now :h:

Tbh I don't think it's that strange. I'm not really attracted to guys with a perfect body or a sixpack, I usually fall for pale scrawny types even though that's not really considered 'attractive' by society...

Reply 25

translucent

It's not really that weird, I've heard worse fetishes :colone:

Reply 26

snowman77

In your photo you don't look imperfect!

Original post by sandrabondaruk

marry me

Softer women are nice! I prefer a softer body to these perfect firm bodies you see in the media or in porn. Your body sounds fine! I am quite heavier than you but in a good way!;P

Original post by snowyowl

My boyfriend likes me a little softer around the edges as it makes me "cuddly" and gives him "something to hold on to". Does that count?

(Before anyone starts suggesting I'm a heffalump, I'm 53kgs (around 8 stone 4) and I'm 5 foot 5. I wear size 6-8 on top and 8-10 on the bottom :smile:

)

Don't a lot of men find a larger pool of women attractive but they still end up with nothing in their prime years?;(

Original post by In One Ear

Well because you'll find a larger pool of women than most physically attractive (which is a plus in itself) allowing you greater flexibility in picking a partner based on personality (as you'll have more choice- lets face it, most people want at least a degree, however small, of physical attraction in a relationship).

Reply 27

wateva

you are sick man, im callin the police

Reply 28

sandrabondaruk

Original post by snowman77

In your photo you don't look imperfect!

You are such a gentleman, thank you! However everyone has their imperfections, and it's great to hear that there are men out the who appreciate real beauty, it's very confidence boosting :smile:

Reply 29

Little Hobbit

I bet that a lot of people have the same attitude as you but just don't admit it, perhaps because they don't want to be judged or feel different? :dontknow:

The media and society dictates what is "perfect" but different people find different things attractive.

Reply 30

SFeet

dude nobody is perfect.. every women on this planet will have imperfections

Reply 31

AspiringGenius

Original post by medbh4805

I sort of get where you're coming from. Looking at images of perfect women makes me depressed because I know I could never be with a woman like that. Realistic women are better because you could actually imagine it happening irl :sexface:

(though even this is probably deluded :getmecoat:

)

Im going to have to say I didn't have you down as a woman :getmecoat:

Reply 32

hatwoman

I <3 you snowman77. Hopefully I'll find a guy like you in the future! :smile:

Reply 33

MetropolisBoy

It does NOT make you in any way strange or weird. In fact, you're normal.

I love you.

Thanks! Real beauty is best and all the imperfections that come with it! Do you have imperfections like cellulite or stretch marks that can't be seen?;P

Original post by sandrabondaruk

You are such a gentleman, thank you! However everyone has their imperfections, and it's great to hear that there are men out the who appreciate real beauty, it's very confidence boosting :smile:

Reply 36

Hal.E.Lujah

How do I keep ending up on the weird part of TSR?

Reply 37

Hal.E.Lujah

Original post by Dragonfly07

There's a trend with attractiveness and personality type. Generally attractive people have to work less hard on their personalities in order to attract people so they tend to be more arrogant.

I think in the end I just ended up associating attractiveness with bad personalities (which of course isn't always the case but hey) and now I'm mostly attracted to average people.

That being said I have a boyfriend with the rare combination of attractiveness and great personality, so I came out lucky.

You had me nodding my head til the last line, when I face palmed.

Reply 38

Dragonfly07

Original post by Hal.E.Lujah

You had me nodding my head til the last line, when I face palmed.

Why?

Reply 39

sandrabondaruk

Original post by snowman77

Thanks! Real beauty is best and all the imperfections that come with it! Do you have imperfections like cellulite or stretch marks that can't be seen?;P