Random guy asks if I will marry him!

You were probably being trolled/guy was under some dare.

Reply 21

a10

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Original post by Nav_Mallhi

Hi people,
I see this guy absolutely every single day on my way to the bus stop. I don’t know his name and I’ve never smiled at him or anything. This morning he comes up to me in a public place and asks if I will marry him! He also had a ring with him! I was like “WHOA!!!!! I don’t even know you mate”. It was soooo embarrassing because everyone literally stopped and stared and plus everyone in that area known me. He is not bad looking but just isn’t my type and is about 19. I just walked away; I did not know what to say, I mean I was in shock- you would never expect to be proposed on a dull Tuesday morning by a stranger. I have been asked out before but this one was asking to marry me! But then he followed me and I told me he really liked me but I said no. He got really angry and said ‘At least I didn’t rape you! So is that a yes then”. I mean WTF!!! :eek:

And that’s when I decided to run.
So now the problem is that I presume that he lives locally and I really don’t want to see him again (by the way, he is one of those bad boys and all) and that’s just not my type. I’m actually quite scared, what if he does come after me?
What can I actually do? I can’t change my route because that is the closest bus stop and the next bus stop is about 30 minutes walk. Shall I confront him and tell him to leave me alone?
Help? Any advice would be appreciated. :smile:

now that's YOLO taken to the extreme lmaoo

I doubt he really wanted to marry you it was probably some dare from friends or something

Reply 22

MetropolisBoy

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Reply 23

OP

Original post by Redolent

To be honest I don't think you can be too cautious about someone who genuinely thinks they can persuade someone to marry them by saying "At least I didn't rape you!"

You sure it wasn't a joke? This all sounds way too ridiculous to be for real[/QUOT

He seemed pretty serious- I mean why would you chase a girl down a dark street at 6.30am- just to scare her? I don't know.

Reply 24

The Troll Toll

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Original post by Rupi

No offence... but how old are you? Age has a lot do with it-esp if you are way older than he is. Plus, they say that you are less likely to get divorced if you marry someone you don't know. How do you know he is not your type if you have not spoken to him? Give him a chance!

Then again-was he serious? Are you sure he wasn't playing some pervy joke? He could be a stalker!!

No offence... but you're completely insane.

Reply 25

OP

Original post by Rupi

Was he Asian? I am not discriminating in any way because I am Asian...

yeah he was Asian, how is that relavent?

Reply 26

hannahchan

Original post by Nav_Mallhi

Hi people,
I see this guy absolutely every single day on my way to the bus stop. I don’t know his name and I’ve never smiled at him or anything. This morning he comes up to me in a public place and asks if I will marry him! He also had a ring with him! I was like “WHOA!!!!! I don’t even know you mate”. It was soooo embarrassing because everyone literally stopped and stared and plus everyone in that area known me. He is not bad looking but just isn’t my type and is about 19. I just walked away; I did not know what to say, I mean I was in shock- you would never expect to be proposed on a dull Tuesday morning by a stranger. I have been asked out before but this one was asking to marry me! But then he followed me and I told me he really liked me but I said no. He got really angry and said ‘At least I didn’t rape you! So is that a yes then”. I mean WTF!!! :eek:

And that’s when I decided to run.
So now the problem is that I presume that he lives locally and I really don’t want to see him again (by the way, he is one of those bad boys and all) and that’s just not my type. I’m actually quite scared, what if he does come after me?
What can I actually do? I can’t change my route because that is the closest bus stop and the next bus stop is about 30 minutes walk. Shall I confront him and tell him to leave me alone?
Help? Any advice would be appreciated. :smile:

Do you think perhaps it is some sort of joke? That is totally odd.. but having said that I've read a few stories on the web that seem to talk about odd men behaving like that. It was definitely a good idea to get out when he said 'rape'. Get a rape alarm and then just tell him if he really liked you.. and he respected your decision he would let you go. Sounds like a stalker though. If you have a car get in it and drive around a bit to get rid of him if you see him on the street.

I really don't know why men think they can get woman by doing that. Some men are so desperate, and again rape is just another form of desperation. Urgh just hearing about all that rape on the news makes me angry and to read this.. is just. :/ wth is up with men?

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 27

SuperWolfPaws

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What a fruit cake, fancy going out his way to make you feel that uncomfortable.
do you feel scared? you could do him for harassment saying 'at least i didnt rape you' is not funny, facking weird and actually quite threatening i would make sure you block him from fb from seeing your page and other internet things. don't acknowledge him or apologize to him. keep you phone on record if he goes after you again.

Reply 28

OP

Original post by hannahchan

Do you think perhaps it is some sort of joke? That is totally odd.. but having said that I've read a few stories on the web that seem to talk about odd men behaving like that. It was definitely a good idea to get out when he said 'rape'. Get a rape alarm and then just tell him if he really liked you.. and he respected your decision he would let you go. Sounds like a stalker though. If you have a car get in it and drive around a bit to get rid of him if you see him on the street.

I really don't know why men think they can get woman by doing that. Some men are so desperate, and again rape is just another form of desperation. Urgh just hearing about all that rape on the news makes me angry and to read this.. is just. :/ wth is up with men?

Exactly! I don't know why men think that, and he has really hurt me, I guess he grabbed me too tight :frown:

Reply 29

OP

Original post by MetropolisBoy

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How very nice of you to creep me out even more.

Reply 30

bssjonny

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That is crazy haha
Maybe be somebody dared him to do it as a joke?

Reply 31

Politricks

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Original post by Nav_Mallhi

yeah he was Asian, how is that relavent?

South or East Asian?

Reply 32

rhstar

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This can't be serious. OP he must've been trollin,Don't change your bus stop because of it. If you see him again,stand your ground and let him know that you don't want him doing that again. If he is serious and it gets out of control, then definitely get help.

Reply 33

CosmicVengeance

Change your style, wear fake glasses, dye your hair change your bag change your style of clothing and change the style of
Makeup, moreover to boost the effectiveness listen to music full blast with earphones thus you wont be able to hear him and contantly look occupied thus extinguishing his candle of hope :biggrin:

hope this helps :tongue:

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Reply 34

OP

Original post by rhstar

This can't be serious. OP he must've been trollin,Don't change your bus stop because of it. If you see him again,stand your ground and let him know that you don't want him doing that again. If he is serious and it gets out of control, then definitely get help.

He i like always there. Since I've starting catching the bus from that stop he is there- no joke. I don't think I want to go back to that bus stop.

Reply 35

hannahchan

Original post by Nav_Mallhi

Exactly! I don't know why men think that, and he has really hurt me, I guess he grabbed me too tight :frown:

..... what do you mean? how?

so you have been standing close to him?

Reply 36

OP