Is there something wrong with me + a question for white guys

Hmmm, I just think I'm sort of different, it's hard to explain. For instance, I don't follow the indian gal craze of dying your hair, mixing English with hindi/urdu etc etc. For, instance my ideal date would be being taken to the theatre/opera followed by a piano bar...or just sitting in front of the fire with some mulled wine I'm quite 'white' in my demeanor and all through school, most people assumed I was Spanish/Moroccan not least because I spoke European languages having lived in that region for several years.

I'm very sorry if I sounded rude in my initial post. I just didn't know how to express it. Thanks for all your replies so far

People seem to think if you like certain music or behave in a certain manner you are "typical" asian individual (be it a girl or boy) and some seem to think if you like certain "alternative" music you are not "typically asian"---------regardless of how one behaves if they are asian they will be considered asian regardles of who they date or how they behave

I don't think it's uncommon to have mixed race relationships. I personally don't have that sort of thing because for some reason, white guys just kinda see over the top of my head and not see me there. LOL

I personally think that I don't stand a chance at all with white guys so my preference is asian guys

I went out with an Asian girl and if it wasn't for her parents we would still be going out *sob*

yeah same thing here, im an british indian girl!..and find that I get more attention from asian/black males rather than white.
I prefer asian guys, if I went out with white/black guys, then my parents would go mental, because they are quite traditional as they were brought up in India, where as I was born and brought up in London, so I'm 'westernised'. But regardess of what my parent's want for me, I still prefer Asian guys, most probably because most of my friends are Asian, and I hardly know many white guys.

personally i would probably, immediatley be attracted to you if i saw you in a room with a load of white girls. I'm a white male myself but find asian/oriental girls very attractive. Also i generally believe they have the kind of personalities i get on with the most. my problem is that i think they won't be interested in me!

hmm... cafe de Paris on Picadilly circus is the funniest place ever, and shows just how segregated the UK is. I went there with an Indian friend once and felt like a cue ball. I felt really intimidated and was rather annoyed I had been taken there without prior warning. It explained to me why I had hardly ever seen Asians (sub-continentals) out in clubs... They all went there! I felt like some of the girls in there were quite cute but I'd not even dare to try it on with any of them.

I didn't realise that so many parents forbid inter-racial fraternisation.

Aw, im sorry some aisn parents seem to be stuck in the past WAY too much.

my sister's kinda having this problem- trying to convince my parents that the black guy shes seeing is someone she loves, and is the guy she wants to marry. and he's muslim, doing accountancy (same as my dad!) and is well spoken and polite. so they should NOT have any problems with it. its frustrating that they cant accept it.

Maybe it challenges the commonly held view that the white male is a monster responsible for unspeakable racism.

Where my brother went to college in the US for post grad there was a joke about "Asian Fetishism" - All the white guys were linking up with oriental girls... so I doubt strawberry need worry.

how do you categorize oriental?