What do women look for in guys?

It somewhat depends on the girl but there are some qualities which are universally attractive to all women and get the ball rolling. It's what PUAs use in flirting. But there are other things. For more clues read Part II of David Deida's Way of the Superior Man. Or check out his other book called It's a Guy Thing (written for women but some insight into gender politics). Also see Robert Glover's No More Mr Nice Guy.

Not necessarily - pickup artists (PUAs) use techniques that are good for getting one night stands and stuff, not for long term relationships. I wouldn't use the techniques employed by PUAs to get a girl, the relationship wouldn't last.

Usually (I think) girls go for confident, charismatic, tall, not skinny, high social status.

Yeah I agree with what you said. I think they don't do what gets the girl long-term. And even though I can tell the techniques are being used I find that somehow they tap into my sexual desire...weird

I can't really explain but to me it's masculine energy and masculine strength that appeals to me, that sense of decisiveness, sexual prowess, confidence and the ability to be strong and be the provider. I think if guys can demonstrate some fundamental masculine/sexual qualities then social status becomes less important.

Really, so if a Pickup artist came at you in a club and started using their routines and you knew what they were doing, the techniques would still work on you? I always thought like if a girl knew about pickup artists, they'd instantly walk away when they saw one.

I think what you're describing in a male is the Alpha male, which pretty much all females are attracted to.

OK I know there have been more than a few posts about this sort of thing and I have looked, but to be honest previous posts are largely girls just saying what colour hair/eyes they like, and that isn't what I'm asking.

I just want to know what personalities are deemed to be good etc.



Thanks.

What about confident guys who just tend to be a little quiet, but not necessarily shy?

OK I know there have been more than a few posts about this sort of thing and I have looked, but to be honest previous posts are largely girls just saying what colour hair/eyes they like, and that isn't what I'm asking.

I just want to know what personalities are deemed to be good etc.

What about confident guys who just tend to be a little quiet, but not necessarily shy?

Thanks.