The longer a guy stays a virgin, the more difficult it is for him to lose it
How much do you agree with this statement?
Note: This doesn't include guys who are remaining virgins through choice. This doesn't include paying for sex from a prostitute or escort.
Note: This doesn't include guys who are remaining virgins through choice. This doesn't include paying for sex from a prostitute or escort.
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Disagree.
It's not a logical response. It would only be true if the guy is carrying on with an approach that never worked before and expecting a different result.
Or if the guy is expecting a result without putting work into it.
Most people have to analyse themselves because you get people who complain about getting no action but have had opportunities before with people they rejected.
You have to adapt and deal with realities. For example I might fancy a certain type of guy more but over the years I have observed what men are actually into me and I've had to adjust my expectations to reflect that. There are some male virgins who don't get laid because they're all butt hurt and think women owe them something. And if you're angry at women, what self-respecting woman would go near you?
It's not a logical response. It would only be true if the guy is carrying on with an approach that never worked before and expecting a different result.
Or if the guy is expecting a result without putting work into it.
Most people have to analyse themselves because you get people who complain about getting no action but have had opportunities before with people they rejected.
You have to adapt and deal with realities. For example I might fancy a certain type of guy more but over the years I have observed what men are actually into me and I've had to adjust my expectations to reflect that. There are some male virgins who don't get laid because they're all butt hurt and think women owe them something. And if you're angry at women, what self-respecting woman would go near you?
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Original post by Lucia.
Disagree.
It's not a logical response. It would only be true if the guy is carrying on with an approach that never worked before and expecting a different result.
Or if the guy is expecting a result without putting work into it.
Most people have to analyse themselves because you get people who complain about getting no action but have had opportunities before with people they rejected.
You have to adapt and deal with realities. For example I might fancy a certain type of guy more but over the years I have observed what men are actually into me and I've had to adjust my expectations to reflect that. There are some male virgins who don't get laid because they're all butt hurt and think women owe them something. And if you're angry at women, what self-respecting woman would go near you?
It's not a logical response. It would only be true if the guy is carrying on with an approach that never worked before and expecting a different result.
Or if the guy is expecting a result without putting work into it.
Most people have to analyse themselves because you get people who complain about getting no action but have had opportunities before with people they rejected.
You have to adapt and deal with realities. For example I might fancy a certain type of guy more but over the years I have observed what men are actually into me and I've had to adjust my expectations to reflect that. There are some male virgins who don't get laid because they're all butt hurt and think women owe them something. And if you're angry at women, what self-respecting woman would go near you?
What about women?
Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom
What about women?
Are you serious?
Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom
What about women?
But the fact is that most women can get laid whenever they want, men can't
Original post by S.R
Are you serious?
Yes.
Original post by Cephalus
But the fact is that most women can get laid whenever they want, men can't
Hmm, depends if you'd be happy to sleep with literally anyone, or if you're waiting for a good relationship, the latter of which can be so hard to find, whether you're male or female.
Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom
Yes.
Hmm, depends if you'd be happy to sleep with literally anyone, or if you're waiting for a good relationship, the latter of which can be so hard to find, whether you're male or female.
Hmm, depends if you'd be happy to sleep with literally anyone, or if you're waiting for a good relationship, the latter of which can be so hard to find, whether you're male or female.
OP was about sex as opposed to relationships - these are two different things, for men. It is far easier for a woman to find a willing sex partner of the opposite sex than a man can.
Agreed. Women will look at the older virgin and I've read women were weirded out by it as they prefer experienced men. But if I was you at a certain age I wouldn't be honest about being a virgin unless it was a girl who truly loved you.
And even the most repulsive women can get laid whenever they want. I know a 20 stone woman called "Fat Kim" who "had cock on tap" because she'd just pull drunken men every night. I can't imagine a 20 stone man pulling women every night unless he's a mega playboy or something.
And even the most repulsive women can get laid whenever they want. I know a 20 stone woman called "Fat Kim" who "had cock on tap" because she'd just pull drunken men every night. I can't imagine a 20 stone man pulling women every night unless he's a mega playboy or something.
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Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom
Yes.
Hmm, depends if you'd be happy to sleep with literally anyone, or if you're waiting for a good relationship, the latter of which can be so hard to find, whether you're male or female.
Hmm, depends if you'd be happy to sleep with literally anyone, or if you're waiting for a good relationship, the latter of which can be so hard to find, whether you're male or female.
But the point is that women can decide to sleep with anyone and not be a virgin anymore. Therefore ultimately the only thing stopping women from losing their virginity is themselves. If you stopped yourself from doing something you can't say you failed at it because it was your conscious choice not to do it. You could have done it if you wanted to.
I'm nearly 19, and still a virgin out of choice, I have turned down numerous girls, just looking for the right person i guess?
I'm a 20 yr old male virgin at uni and I'd agree with the OP.
I've tried in the past but things have always gone badly. After a while it just ruins your confidence, which is where i'm at now. I don't even feel like clubbing anymore coz i know I'll just end up watching all my friends hooking up with people. And then I hear them talking about who they slept with, or looking up girls on fb (conversations I always get left out of) and I feel even worse. It's ****ed up coz I have everything going for me eg. looks, build, intelligence etc. but my "game", or whatever you want to call it, must be so damn **** that it outweighs all that. These days it seems like girls can just sense that i'm a virgin.
So yh i'd say it does get worse if you lose confidence like I have. I know I'm probably my own worst enemy coz I'm not really giving myself many opportunities but at the same time i'm so convinced i'll mess up that it's probably not worth it. Literally can't see any way i'll lose it now.
I've tried in the past but things have always gone badly. After a while it just ruins your confidence, which is where i'm at now. I don't even feel like clubbing anymore coz i know I'll just end up watching all my friends hooking up with people. And then I hear them talking about who they slept with, or looking up girls on fb (conversations I always get left out of) and I feel even worse. It's ****ed up coz I have everything going for me eg. looks, build, intelligence etc. but my "game", or whatever you want to call it, must be so damn **** that it outweighs all that. These days it seems like girls can just sense that i'm a virgin.
So yh i'd say it does get worse if you lose confidence like I have. I know I'm probably my own worst enemy coz I'm not really giving myself many opportunities but at the same time i'm so convinced i'll mess up that it's probably not worth it. Literally can't see any way i'll lose it now.
Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom
Yes.
Hmm, depends if you'd be happy to sleep with literally anyone, or if you're waiting for a good relationship, the latter of which can be so hard to find, whether you're male or female.
Hmm, depends if you'd be happy to sleep with literally anyone, or if you're waiting for a good relationship, the latter of which can be so hard to find, whether you're male or female.
Waiting for what someone would class to be a good relationship would depend on their standards. If they're fed up of waiting be less shallow and/or lower standard. Simple.
Some guys don't have that option. Majority of women probably do.
Women do not usually see a man with the self-respect to not sleep with any old drunken wench as a loser.
Women do not usually want to suck a rainbow of other vaginas off the cock of every man they're with, especially in a relationship.
Unfortunately, women DO usually see a man who is butt-hurt about the fact he wants a vagina but has to get a woman with it as a loser. Especially if he is one of about 3 or 4 males on TSR who keep putting sexist comments online based on a few nasty girls who have turned them down. This is precisely why you are not getting laid. Go invest your anger in architecture or heroic deeds or something, that will impress a woman far more than ****ing around on chat rooms.
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PS. As a woman, I can safely say, from experience - or lack of it - it really really isn't that easy for the average woman to get laid.
Women do not usually want to suck a rainbow of other vaginas off the cock of every man they're with, especially in a relationship.
Unfortunately, women DO usually see a man who is butt-hurt about the fact he wants a vagina but has to get a woman with it as a loser. Especially if he is one of about 3 or 4 males on TSR who keep putting sexist comments online based on a few nasty girls who have turned them down. This is precisely why you are not getting laid. Go invest your anger in architecture or heroic deeds or something, that will impress a woman far more than ****ing around on chat rooms.
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PS. As a woman, I can safely say, from experience - or lack of it - it really really isn't that easy for the average woman to get laid.
Who cares?
TSR appears to have an abnormally large selection of posters who obsess over the mechanics of 'getting girls' and 'getting laid'.
Go out, enjoy yourself and if you like a girl - talk to her.
TSR appears to have an abnormally large selection of posters who obsess over the mechanics of 'getting girls' and 'getting laid'.
Go out, enjoy yourself and if you like a girl - talk to her.
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