Admit feelings or not?

So I have a crush on this guy I don't see very often (due to distance) and whom I will probably not see after January for a long time. We will be hopefully meeting up one or two times over the next few weeks, and I was wondering whether I should tell him or not that I have a crush on him?

If you were a guy, and you met up with a girl which presumably you assumed liked her, would you rather she told you or not?

And in the event of saying it, how should I go about saying it?
Eg: "I like you" "I have a crush on you".. just kiss him?
how do I bring it up in conversation, and should it be towards the start of the meeting or in the middle? I know tradition is it should be said towards the end, but given that I won't be seeing him that much I feel I should say it a little earlier, in case he does reciprocate in some way.. I'm aware it might make the situation awkward, but I would be prepared to deal with that...

I guess I just want to know general TSRian thoughts. I think I'm brave enough to do it, I just want to know which may be the best way of going about it. Or is it a better idea to not do it at all?

Hmm don't say "I have a crush on you" and move in for a kiss, that could be awkward. Yes though say, "I really like you" because that's quite normal and can be very flattering unless he's an oddball.