Looking for advice from women, to try and understand this...
Me and my girlfriend have been together for 10 months.
Prior to this we had been seeing each other a few months, before then we were best mates who saw each other all the time.
She went to uni in septemeber. It's not been easy but now after 2 months, were finally getting used to it. I see her as much as i can as as much as she likes. I told her i can see her every weekend if thats what she wants.
Obviously she wants to go out a lot of weekends and such so it averages to every couple of weeks i see her.
The other day i went up to see her, had an amazing time.
On the way home she was saying she loved me etc.
Then at 10:30pm she skyped me, crying her eyes out telling me that she needs to break up with me...
She says that "she needs time to figure herself out" and that she needs to get used to not having me around. She says it might be just a break, but she doesnt want ot seem like shes messing me around so she 'ended it'.
No real reason.
I don't understand, we were so happy. And then she just ended it.
She says its been on her mind for a couple of weeks.
But 3 weeks ago she gave me a love-letter telling me she always wants to be with me.
Even after all this she says that she wasnt lieing on the letter, she just can't help how she feels.
When i said "why didnt you tell me how you were feeling, when you first felt like this".
She says she didnt want to say anything until she was sure.
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME UNDERSTANDING?
I don't know where this leaves me. I don't know if i should go up and see her, avoid her.
Is this just an excuse to live the 'uni-life' for a bit, getting with guys etc. Then come back to me?
Thoughts please...
I'm going out of my mind, i miss her so much.
To go from being so happy together, to this... i just can't understand.
She says she loves me, and she doesn't know if this is the right decision but shes had to do it.
Any views on this, please comment.
Thank you.