has anyone not had a boyfriend/girlfriend yet?

I'm 18 and still haven't had a boyfriend, is it weird? like, I see 13 year olds in relationships, and I still haven't had one yet. is anyone in the same position as me, just so that I know I'm not alone!

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Reply 1

AndrewVi

You my dear girl, are not alone. I've always felt like i wanted a girlfriend, but whenever i actually have something going, my mind just goes into that wonderful state of 'CBA' :smile:

but to answer your question, yeah, perfectly normal.

Reply 2

hannahamelia

1

yes, I turn 18 in a couple of months and I've never really had a relationship with anyone. Don't worry about it, it's just because you want the perfect person and theses 13 year olds clearly don't care.

Reply 3

CherryCherryBoomBoom

21

Just do a quick search of this site, and you'll find literally hundreds of posts from different people, some in their 20s, who haven't had a relationship before. It's not really as odd as you might think, so don't worry about it :smile:

Reply 4

maselg2

Im 17 and never had a boyfriend never really seen the point...I guess I a cynic.

Reply 5

cambio wechsel

20

I've not had a 'boyfriend/girlfriend' yet but have booked tickets to Thailand for New Year. Watch this space then.

Reply 6

oddsox

16

You've already done this thread once this evening...

Reply 7

bssjonny

12

Oh bore off with these threads will you.

A lot of people will have had a bf/gf by this age but if you haven't its not a big deal.
One thing for certain though is that if you plan on carrying making these dull threads your situation will not change.

Reply 8

dschiefer

9

No, you're not weird. There's no definite age set for a relationship. I'm 2 years older than you and haven't been in a relationship before. It's normal. :smile:

Reply 9

Eboracum

18

Original post by cambio wechsel

I've not had a 'boyfriend/girlfriend' yet but have booked tickets to Thailand for New Year. Watch this space then.

That's fantastic. Gave me a laugh on this cold Friday night in the university library.

Reply 10

Eboracum

18

Original post by bssjonny

Oh bore off with these threads will you.

A lot of people will have had a bf/gf by this age but if you haven't its not a big deal.
One thing for certain though is that if you plan on carrying making these dull threads your situation will not change.

Ha ha. I was thinking, we are seeing these threads all the time! Who cares if you haven't had a boyfriend/girlfriend by the time you are 18, it's perfectly normal!

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Your time will come, don't think too much into it. Enjoy being single for the time being!

This post misused the anon function. Before posting anonymously, please read the H&R guidelines - http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/wiki/Health_and_Relationships_Guidelines

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 12

Treeroy

18

Nope, I haven't had a boyfriend either, OP, don't worry.

(Is this where I mention I'm a straight guy?)

Reply 13

cyxstudio

13

im 22 and i have no ****.

Reply 14

LaurenEliza

before i discovered this website i always thought 'i must be the only 17 year old to have never had a boyfriend' but it's surprising how many people haven't! you're not alone (:

Reply 15

animalmad1992

Me

Im 20 and honestly its something i get quite insecure about as i feel im just 'not good enough' for anyone

Reply 16

IxI_Rhys_IxI

3

Original post by an-anon-student

I'm 18 and still haven't had a boyfriend, is it weird? like, I see 13 year olds in relationships, and I still haven't had one yet. is anyone in the same position as me, just so that I know I'm not alone!

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I'm 18, I've never been kissed, nor have I been in a relationship... But when the time comes, it'll come.

Reply 17

aspirinpharmacist

20

Original post by IxI_Rhys_IxI

I'm 18, I've never been kissed, nor have I been in a relationship... But when the time comes, it'll come.

...and then you will.

Sorry!! Living with a very dirty minded flatmate and I really couldn't resist. Sorry. :tongue:

Anyway, OP, don't worry about it. Loads of people haven't.

Reply 18

Lozzaa

9

I've slept with a fair number of girls, but never had a serious relationship and I'm 22. I dunno if this is a good or bad thing. Oh well.

Reply 19

Jamie95

10

Original post by an-anon-student

I'm 18 and still haven't had a boyfriend, is it weird? like, I see 13 year olds in relationships, and I still haven't had one yet. is anyone in the same position as me, just so that I know I'm not alone!

Hey, I'm 17 (18 in March) and I haven't had a girlfriend yet, or had my first kiss as a matter of fact.

You're not alone (I don't know about the kiss part, you may have had yours, I dunno, but you're not alone about not having had a boyfriend yet).

has anyone not had a boyfriend/girlfriend yet?

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