Princess syndrome

I totally get you OP. I see so many dead average boring ass no life girls on fb bleating on about how they want the perfect prince charming. And to cap it all off if you were to point out that they are not that great themselves you get an army of "dnt listen to him bbz ur beautiful as u are". I think you have highlighted a major issue amongst females; that they are more averse to self-improvement than males.

I have the perfect bf
He is all of the qualities you listed above, (well except rich but tbh money doesnt matter to me anyway)

Yes i feel i deserve him.

I put lots of effort into the relationship and my looks etc, i would never cheat, I love him to bits and constantly show him that.
We live together and i cook, clean and look after him generally which he appreciates as he works more than me, and doesnt like doing these things.
I buy him little presents to show him i care.

How do you know these girls dont do anything to deserve their bf's? You might not be able to see what is going on in the relationship as you are not part of it.

I'm a woman, and quite frankly all the assumptions about women you've made do not apply to me. There are over 3 billion women on the planet, and I would (quite rightly) assume that they differ hugely in their behaviour and beliefs. Please do not tar us all with the same brush, because it's quite unpleasant and unfair.

That's unfair, the dynamics of male friendships and female ones are completely different; whereas it's quite normal to insult friends as a guy, this is totally unacceptable and 'bitchy' behaviour for girls.

I don't think girls are any more unrealistic than guys and as for girls 'not refusing to change', does this apply to the numerous guys on the these threads who feel equally entitled because they are 'nice' - an undefined, abstract notion they have awarded themselves with. They refuse to 'chase' (read make an effort) and are usually neither interesting, nor confident or athletically built. Why is one ok and acceptable but when females display preferences they get a 'how dare they' style response? Why can guys demand in-shape, interesting and confident women but a woman wanting the same in a man is a 'princess' and 'unrealistic'. Tbh I don't know any women who actually expect the kind of guy you described.

Way to bring women back to the 1950s...

ps I appreciate some women want this life, but my point was that you saying you are doing this in order to deserve this bf of yours.

But why is that bad? Women have never been more depressed than they are today, thus maybe housework is better for them?

Because it gave birth to the concept that women had a "right" to get anything they want because they are a woman.
The truth is that no one has a "right", but that everything has to be earned. If you want a good job, do a good degree. Want a good man? Work on yourself and earn him by being interesting, confident, in good shape etc.

I think people in general want the best for themselves [...] I don't think it's a girl only or guy only issue but a human issue.

Maybe in the UK. In Switzerland it' crazy how many girls go to the gym (and on the stepper, too, to tone their bum while doing cardio).

If you were talking in terms of improving ones personality, that is a tough issues, because to do that you have to think something needs improvement. And maybe this is just the way girls are and don't see a need to "improve".

Finally, your comment about Facebook is naive. Girls are drama queens to a bigger or lesser extent, how can you even start to believe what they post on Facebook reflects their normal, true attitude/belief?

This forum (and many others I'm sure) are just full of moaning females.

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So why is it that the modern girl/woman feels that she is entitled to the perfect boyfriend?

To clarify, you see girls demanding that they have a boyfriend who is either a contradiction (the man who is confident, ambitious, career focused, but reserved, sensitive, and a family man ), or perfect eg. rich, good looking, perfect body, and a nice guy.....yet the girl just sits around pissing hours away on facebook/the internet, has no hobbies/ is utterly boring, and can't spell exercise let alone do any?

So why does the modern girl feel that they are entitled to the perfect man and the perfect life yet they do nothing to deserve or earn this?
What is more alarming, is that when you remind these people that they are human and that you have to try at life, they argue that men should either lower their standards/not try/be open minded/insert femlogic here and that they should be given everything they want because they are simply entitled to it.

Why is this?

Personally, I blame feminism and the media.
If someone turns around and tells a girl to sort out their issues and to try at life, they are either a bitch or a chauvinist (depending on gender of course). This in turn allows girls to demand anything and it is deemed inappropriate to tell them to get a grip on reality - or as I call it, Princess syndrome.

What?

WHAT.

This forum is full of boys constantly criticising women and feminism, full of sour bitter guys. Very rare in real life have I ever met a boy with such anti-feminist hateful and demeaning opinions of women. There is always a thread to be had where boys are moaning about women going for tools, women's ****ed up logic, how women are now treating men like crap and apparently we are now in a social crises where sexism has been reversed, how women are completely shaped by the media, can't think for themselves, are shallow, boring, do nothing and expect everything. And it all derives from the same problem. I can be so so sure that if the OP had a girlfriend, he would not be saying this. So rather than look at half of the population and blame them, I suggest he look at himself.

I'm mostly talking about personality. While you will regularly hear of guys saying they will take steps to improve their confidence or be more funny it is unheard of to hear a girl say she will make a resolution to be less bitchy or dull.

BLAME TWILIGHT

i feel for the guys who are like 13/14/15 now....in a couple years when those twilight girls who are the same age start sniffing around for a lover boy, they will want either a werewolf or a vampire, with a romantic relationship which is dramatic and threatened because of differences between our 2 species....

"I'm just not into you anymore....you don't have a thirst for blood".

There is going to be a TON of single perfectly nice chaps trying to convince the princesses that a boyfriend doesn't have to have a darker sexier side. It's fine to just grow old in a council house in Wallyford.

Way to bring women back to the 1950s...

ps I appreciate some women want this life, but my point was that you saying you are doing this in order to deserve this bf of yours.

You sound incredibly bitter.

Is there something you would like to share with the forum? Perhaps make a thread

Well guess what? What about porn, slutty magazines, pop music videos, every single medium of the media? What kind of ideas and entitlement do you think could give men?

However, I am not so idiotic to say that all men are mindless copycats. Yes they are influenced by it, but you see, I realise that all men are different. I can not believe that you could say such a thing about women, do you really think they are so dumb? My God. Calling all girls princesses and making such asinine judgments is sexist. And I know so many guys on here would disagree with what I am saying completely. In real life it is such a different story, thank God. And you all wonder why you have no girls in your life.


The way you guys talk is scary. 'How dare women have a right to want a good man? DAMN FEMINISM! It ruined everything!'

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But why is that bad? Women have never been more depressed than they are today, thus maybe housework is better for them?

1. Figures please.

2. Because I know that men are more depressive than women. Maybe men should do housework, too?

This is not feminism. Feminism suggested to women for the first time that a) they didn't just have to 'get married' and b) when they did, they didn't have to confine themselves to cooking, cleaning and putting up with a husband who came home and expected to be waited on hand-and-foot.

The idea that feminism means there is a 'right' to a 'perfect man' is bs. That may be how some people have interpreted it, but that is a lazy interpretation of feminism, not feminism itself.

The girls who reject you probably don't even have high standards but because they won't give you a chance you assume she wants all of that and thats the reason you have been rejected. You assume that you're great but not quite perfect and that she is being unfair when really there are probably a few valid reasons why you are just not likeable. A girl is not a bitch or a "princess" for not liking you. Girls aren't that strict when it comes to boyfriend material even if they do say all that. Just like guys might love to have a kim kardashian who cooks and makes sandwhiches like nigella lawson but sucks your dick like a pornstar and has a degree from oxford...they know its never going to happen.

Cause, causation and correlation. Learn the relationship between them. Women are more depressed than ever. Does that mean they would be happier if homosexuality wasn't legal? No-that's jumping to conclusions.

To be honest, I'd be more likely to fall into depression being forced to be a housewife than having freedom and a choice to either do that or whatever else I aspire too.

What?

WHAT.

This forum is full of boys constantly criticising women and feminism, full of sour bitter guys. Very rare in real life have I ever met a boy with such anti-feminist hateful and demeaning opinions of women. There is always a thread to be had where boys are moaning about women going for tools, women's ****ed up logic, how women are now treating men like crap and apparently we are now in a social crises where sexism has been reversed, how women are completely shaped by the media, can't think for themselves, are shallow, boring, do nothing and expect everything. And it all derives from the same problem. I can be so so sure that if the OP had a girlfriend, he would not be saying this. So rather than look at half of the population and blame them, I suggest he look at himself.

Bitter about TSR boys, yes. It's scary the way that a lot of you seem to hate women. But as I said in my post, thank god guys in real life do not think this way. So I'm not bitter about males, just that this student forum has constant threads where men group together and slag off women. You've disregarded my post completely. But I've seen your posts here before, so though I quoted you I actually didn't want a conversation to you. Just used your post to get my point across.