Healthy skeptacism is always good
It's not so much that you want to see the strings, but to see an effect they have which a point particle theory doesn't say should be there. As yes the theory is a bit too immature to have got to the point of making it's own predictions. If does develop general relativity spontaneously within itself though, which is a good sign (that was one of the reasons Michael Green gave for why he thought it was worth researching).
There are beginning to be ideas on how to look for extra dimensions too. Things like how gravity behaves.
Inconsistent is the wrong word I think. It gives multiple perspectives which on the surface don't seem to share enough commonalities to be linked. Your worry is well founded though and until 1995 it was a thorn in the side of many a researcher till Witten, then people like Hull, Townsend, Schwarz, Green etc, realised that if you hypothesised the existence of 11 dimensions (the theories you name are 10 dimensional) and then use various ways to remove that dimension you get the 5 different theories.
It's vaguely like some old Hindu/Buddist tale about a village of blind people trying to work out what an elephant looks like (I hope I'm remember this right rather than inventing a crazy story). One villager 'fumbles' the trunk and says an elephant is like a huge snake, long and thin and thrashing about. Another feels a leg and says an elephant is like a tree, thick, round and tall. A third feels the ears and says an elephant is like a bat's wing, thin, flat and flapping about. None of them get the complete image and without actually seeing the whole elephant they never get the right description by trying to mesh their versions together. M theory is like that. We've realised we're seeing snippets of something greater and only just beginning to find out about that.
It's hard to get across the elegance of it, particularly if you don't show the maths, but it's not clumbsy or mish-mashed together. I think it's Weinberg who says something like 'It's hard to think that something so rich and elegant in structure is totally wrong.'. Even if the current theories end up being swept away by time, I think that the hypothesis of particles being described by objects with internal structure (ie strings or membranes) is so powerful a notion something of it will remain in physics for a long time to come.