Did I treat this girl badly?

He wanted to meet up with her so he could eventually put his D in her V though. I agree sometimes people are busy, but if he puts no effort into texting him back, start conversations or give a real explanation why should he have to be the patient one and take her ****?

I would have done deleted her and stopped texting her too. If she wanted to explain to me and she had a genuine explanation then, and only then would I apologise about making a hasty decision and cutting all contact with her.

I don't see why he should waist his time following a ganga and be seen as he 'bad' one.

OP here. What's the gentlemanly way to try to fix things? Should I even bother trying to fix things or would that just make things worse? I'd love to at least be friends with her.

OP if you want to clap dem chimps/friend that then you apologise and explain why you deleted her in a polite way. Whether that will actually change her former decision on persistently blowing you off is a different matter.

Be wary of her trying to pull crap like pretending to be mad so you do something "cute/nice" for her.

It's your call bro, if you think she's really worth it then go for it but just watch out.

He wanted to meet up with her so he could eventually put his D in her V though.

Yeh I'm thinking of apologising to her but at the same time I'm asking myself if she even deserves one for blowing me off so many times. I'm really conflicted.

No. People do not only meet up to have sex unless they want to be a man whore and treat someone they love like their a slut.

U aving a giggle m8? The only reason people start relationships is to get their D wet, after that gets boring then maybe it's how nice the other person is.

No I am not *having a giggle, relationships are for if you like someone personally and sex is the pleasure that comes as a bonus. But it should never be a reason and only reason you be in any relationships.

That's like only eating your dinner because you want dessert, which is absolutely no different to just eating the cake without dinner.

So you're telling me you don't consider anyone sexually until you've talked to them, and if you like their personality then you start to think of them sexually? Because that's hard to believe.

How are you going to meet someone? It's not like you can see their personality, you're going to have to talk to them first to understand what they're like. What initially attracts you to a person?

So you're telling me you don't consider anyone sexually until you've talked to them, and if you like their personality then you start to think of them sexually? Because that's hard to believe.

No, I don't usually think sexually of a person I only see a picture of on Facebook. Although I would usually think about it after a couple of times meeting them, not instantly. But I wouldn't just dump or forget about them nor make my whole relationship be based to the time I have sex with them and then leave it there.

I can understand you being annoyed, but you shouldn't have deleted her. She may have had personal (family or health etc) things going on. Things that she's not exactly obligated to share with someone she hardly knows.

You've simply proven that you couldn't be bothered with her. What a catch(!)

Pretty much.

Why are you so obsessed? Deleting her had no purpose other than to upset and confuse her? From your description she sounded kind hearted and sincere about it... Yeah you do sound like an ass for that to be honest.


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I can understand you being annoyed, but you shouldn't have deleted her. She may have had personal (family or health etc) things going on. Things that she's not exactly obligated to share with someone she hardly knows.

You've simply proven that you couldn't be bothered with her. What a catch(!)

Lel'd. Implying it's his sole responsibility to make the effort in their apparently 'mutual' interest in eachother.

"btw i am grill, please giv equality but make sur u txt me first bby and i might let u tuch my v"

I can understand you being annoyed, but you shouldn't have deleted her. She may have had personal (family or health etc) things going on. Things that she's not exactly obligated to share with someone she hardly knows.

You've simply proven that you couldn't be bothered with her. What a catch(!)

You did the right thing bro, she was clearly stringing you along until she had nothing better to do but make plans with you. If she was so 'upset' about you cutting contact with her she could have always text you, right? She's just trying to make you look bad now so no one realises how much of a slut she is.

Why should either of them have to 'make the effort'? They're not in a relationship. There's no reason why he couldn't have just taken a back seat for a little while.

Clearly the best thing to do in their situation would have been to not bother rather than waste time, why should he take a back seat when he can move on? And why was she keeping hold of him if she wasn't capable of doing anything with him (for whatever reason)?

I'm not saying he should have stuck his penis between his legs and 'waited for her'. But there is absolutely no reason that he couldn't have just got on with his life and carried on meeting new people whilst still keeping communication lines open.

By deleting her from fb and his phone, he is effectively removing her from his life simply because she's a little busy and isn't giving a him (a guy she hardly knows) some attention?! It's an OTT reaction.

Eta: I'm going to sleep.