So basically, Im a girl and i recently had my first one night stand. The guy was really nice, and in the morning he asked for my number and we met up again later again that day and hes texted me a few times, and he's now left the area because he lives in another part of the country. Im relieved that i dont have to see him again if i dont want to, and i want to make it clear that i dont want to have a relationship with him and id be happy tp never see him again.
But i was just wondering how most guys feel after a one night stand, like if you had a good time would you consider having a relationship with the person evn if it was long distance??
The thing is, hes sort of implied that hed like a relationship, but i cant help thinking that he just wants a chance to have sex in the future whenever he wants; and theres not much chance of us having a proper relationship because of how far away he lives so he wouldnt have to worry about me getting too clingy. Obviously i hardly know him so i dont know much about his character, so i dont if i can trust him, but i am just wondering how a guy generally feels after a ONS. Also could it just be that he is a nice guy, so he wanted to keep in contact?
I dont believe that many guys want to get into a relationship after having a one night stand, (especially with someone like me as im not that attractive and he probably things i am easy cos i made it quite obvious i have low self esteem) but im just wondering about people opinions on the matter
Anyway, sorry for rambling on, if you actually bothered to read this whole essay of a post.