So people think Im gay (You "look" gay)

I can't see how Im being an "effeminate pussy" by trying to be nice to every one I meet, as long as I get on with them.

Just because I get on with people, it doesn't make me "effeminate" or a "pussy" or even both

I seem to get accused a lot.

I can't see how Im being an "effeminate pussy" by trying to be nice to every one I meet, as long as I get on with them.

Just because I get on with people, it doesn't make me "effeminate" or a "pussy" or even both

It's the accent thing I think, when I moved from the south to the midlands people decided I "sounded gay" because I had a southern accent which was relatively posh :/
The main thing is dont let it bother you, if you stop caring a about it and laugh it off people will stop saying it. Or you could just get a girlfriend lol


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You sure they weren't calling you "a diamond in the rough"?

Yeah it can be annoying

But you guys here seem to have been pretty good, so thanks!

I wouldn't let it bother you mate.
I am the exact opposite because I am gay and have been told I don't look gay. =P

It is weird because some of the girls in my class (around 5 or 6) have become really good friends or I should say closer since I came out at the end of last year. The guys play a few small jokes and make a little humour but it's all good fun. Everyone points out things which makes them different and to be fair, ALL the guys make a few racist puns/jokes all in good humour. =P

Even though all the guys like to act a little, well overly sexual including touching all the guys legs, ass, face and hair (we're all in sixth form).
I think you may be over reacting a little but if it is really bugging you, PM me. I am not here to judge you nor do I know you so I can help you if you need it at all. I suppose it might help if I know a little more about you such as age, personality etc...

Like I said, if you need to talk to anyone, I can help you.
I know you said you aren't gay and I completely believe you, out of EVERYONE I have met in my life, only 3-4 have been gay. So, I can help you with dealing with it if that's what you need help with.

Hmmm perhaps. But there is a difference in age. Im at uni, and no longer at sixth form at all...

Lol, I know what you mean.
All the guys who were @$$***** in my secondary school are either working in Mcdonalds, pubs or places which require little to no qualifications because I saw how many A*-C grades they all came out with, none came out with anything higher than 3 A*-C grades, one came out with none at all.

Also, may I ask why OP is posting anon, not like we are here to judge here.

You may look a bit feminine for a guy which is a stereotype for gay people

I hope not

I hope you don't get the wrong idea but, could you please just give us a brief facial feature/body build?

Age:
Hair Colour:
Shave (Yes or No):
Body Build (Slim, Medium or Large):

I got this in my area (a stereotypical declining ex mining town in the north) and I got called gay becuse I wasn't dressed like them and have my own style (chavvy sportswear, anything from footlocker and Republic are trendy). The fact I wasn't speaking in LAD, I wasn't into football
And I didn't conform to the stereotype all contribute.

When people like that call you gay it's usually because you're different.


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