this girl really confuses me.

Yeah some girls do it, and I don't think they realize they are full on staring lol. I was walking to a lecture and this girl was eyeing me up in the opposite direction so i stared her out and she looked away

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Hahah

Its happened to me before, never bothered me before, but I'm just frickin curious why she stares. Surely my pencil case isn't that awesome!

If it's in a lecture it's likely she is either just bored and likes making eye contact (sounds weird but some people do, it makes them feel important for a moment or something because they have control of someone else's attention). A lot more interesting than staring at stupid lecture slides. She could just be using the spare time to baffle you, in which case she has succeeded.

Alternatively she could think you seem nice, is visually drawn to you, finds it interesting to look at you. Don't jump to the conclusion she wants you in her pants, not saying you would, but loads of guys do that and it's just so annoying, arrogant and generally not becoming.

If you're interested in a girl, then the only way you'll ever get in there is if you get to know the true her, not by making dumb eye contact and playing games.

Good luck

She fancies you, this is pretty much basic rule no1.

If she looks at you for long periods of time she's pretty much going "COME OVER AND ****ING TALK TO ME!" Your the guy, make the first move. She just doesn't want to come across as either easy or a slut.

Basically, there's this girl in my lectures who I've found looking at me several times, but looks away as soon as I look

I don't want to bother with stupid "does she like me or not" ****, I just don't understand why she looks at me so often, I start to think I've forgotten to wear my pants or something!

She did it again today, I was walking with my mate back to halls from the lecture, she was walking further ahead, I just looked ahead and saw her looking at me again then turn her head away, *sigh*

She's pretty, but I can't tell if she feels that I'm staring at her, or she's thinks I'm just odd. She seems shy but man I'm confuzzled.

Do you girls ever look at someone repeatedly like that? for what reason? If I ever see a girl I find attractive, yes i will look, but not more than once or twice, as I'd hate to look like a creep.

Should I just try talking to her or just try ignoring it?

Just realised, I added her on Facebook like two months ago from a society page for our course (I added most people I see in lectures and tutorials as I felt it would be a good idea as I see them a lot)

Could me I guess randomly adding her caused her to think I'm some creep?


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She probably likes you. Or finds you attractive. But, yes, it doesn't mean she "wants you in her pants" as others have put it. I've actually done this the other way round a few times before, without realising it. Best thing to do is smile, or a smiley-wink which is harmless and amicable. You will catch her gaze before she looks away, she'll see. But, after having done so, don't stare at her. She'd feel awkward; most people like to think they can look on someone without them knowing, so it's like a guilty pleasure. If you have the same lecture regularly, you can keep this up, until it's happened enough to bring it up.
Some people go for nicknames that are self-evident and amusing, or you could go for the "You're the girl from ..." - it shows that you noticed her. Don't make an explicit point of the fact she looks at you. No matter how funny you are, it can be awkward for both of you
Make some conversation, get stuck in; you'll soon work out if she likes you. If you're still not sure, keep it up, get her number
Good luck buddy, tell us how it goes!

Hey! Sooo this will sound massively creepy but, when I find people interesting (not necessarily attractive) I can't help sneaking a peek... I don't know why but some people just make me wonder what they're like, what they do, what their life has been like so far, and what they're thinking of! But then, when I get 'caught' I realise how freaky and rude I'm being so I quickly look away! Maybe the girl you talk about is doing something similar? When you 'catch' her in the act, what is her expression like? This might give you a clue about why she looks at you!

Ooh also, it could just be that you're in her line of vision, or that your seat is in front of the window. I often doze off with my eyes open and 'stare' at someone without looking at them. Haha, once, this guy was sitting in front of the window in my chemistry class. I was always kind of tired or bored so I'd look out the window. He developped this theory that I had a massive crush on him because he thought I was always looking at him.

Hey! Sooo this will sound massively creepy but, when I find people interesting (not necessarily attractive) I can't help sneaking a peek... I don't know why but some people just make me wonder what they're like, what they do, what their life has been like so far, and what they're thinking of! But then, when I get 'caught' I realise how freaky and rude I'm being so I quickly look away! Maybe the girl you talk about is doing something similar? When you 'catch' her in the act, what is her expression like? This might give you a clue about why she looks at you!
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I do exactly this!