Man finds out he's not the father of 3 children. Yup you guess what happens next...

What in the actual ****?

What in the actual ****?

Serious! I was shocked at it cant remember too much now think it was on Channel 4 about 6 years ago.

Its quite common in certain circles, I remember reading about NBA players and Brazilian footballers being instructed to flush their condom's rather than bin them when they had ONS to avoid just this.

Have you heard of sperm bandits? Saw a documentary years ago that women were having PROTECTED sex with men then recovering the condom often freezing it then impregnating themselves and years later the man gets a child support bill and is forced to pay!

https://www.google.co.uk/#hl=en&tbo=d&sclient=psy-ab&q=Dotun+Adebayo%27s+sperm+bandits+documentary&oq=Dotun+Adebayo%27s+sperm+bandits+documentary&gs_l=serp.3...6832.12210.2.12649.10.8.2.0.0.0.172.799.6j2.8.0.les%3Bepsugrpqhmoffline..0.0...1c.1.2.serp.IkYxRYFsXp8&pbx=1&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.r_cp.r_qf.&fp=4049eccdced8b419&biw=1920&bih=854

Quick Google search on sperm bandits...

Original story is in french and subscription only. Happened in Montreal, Canada.

- 39 years old man dates woman for over 16 years (not married).
- Has 4 children with that woman.
- Youngest kid is now 9 years old.
- Man eventually thinks his GF might be cheating on him.
- Gets DNA tests for his 4 children.
- Finds out he's not the biological father of 3 of them.
- Breaks up.
- Man is forced to pay for child support.
- Why? Because he signed the birth certificates which makes him the "legal" father of the 3 children.
- He now has to pay over $700/month in child support even though he only makes $900 (net) per month.
- Has to go back to living with his parents.
- Man is severely depressed and will most likely commit suicide within the next week or so.

http://www.journaldemontreal.com/2013/02/05/trois-de-ses-enfants-ne-sont-pas-de-lui

EDIT: English link:

http://www.torontosun.com/2013/02/06/dad-must-pay-child-support-for-3-kids-that-arent-his-court-rules

Raging beyond belief at the moment. Cannot believe the system is supporting women in committing fraud.

At the very least the woman should be facing a civil charge. Most preferably some sort of criminal charge, but no she is rewarded for it by getting child support and the man is yet again punished.

Extremely sad to see what the Western world has become; what was the promise and the start of the prevalence of logic and rationale has been totally thrown off course.

He is the father. Being a father is much more than genes. It is right that he pays child support.

Being duped into fatherhood =/= fatherhood I'm afraid.

Cheating isn't a crime. And he was happy to admit that they were his children before the tests.

Tragic,but I remember reading a case like this that happen in florida, where man had to countinue to pay child support despite the child not being his. But the guy was gone take the case to higher acourt, don't know what happened in the end, but i hope this man can find some hope like this and hopefully does not have to continue to pay. The only solution to a think like this would be forced paternity testing at birth, although some men might find it insulting, it would save many from a lifetime of aningwish and thus it should be implimnted. People in the west often sight islam bias towards men,being one of large cultural fallings, but look at what laws like these and divorse laws are like in the west their just out their to emotionally ahniliate men. Stuff like this is just so culturally barbaric it has to stop, the legal system has to now start considering the emotional weeling being of men.

Cheating isn't a crime. And he was happy to admit that they were his children before the tests.

Rubbish. He loved the kids as his own. They will have formed attachments with him, he will have cared for them, loved them. To then dump them for something that is not their fault is the mark of a scumbag.

He is the father. Being a father is much more than genes. It is right that he pays child support.

It doesn't matter, emotional attachment shouldn't translate into legal and financial responsibility, especially if it has no biological basis.

Yes, being are farther can mean more then genes but no one should be forced into helping rasie a child that is not theirs

That is extremely unfair. She has betrayed him and perpetuated the lie that they were his kids then to add insult to injury he has to pay child support even though they aren't his? Appalling.