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Would you send you children to an independent school if you could afford it

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Depending on how decent the state school in the area is. Even though I personally hate them, I would never let my hypothetical child be allowed to be limited because of my beliefs on how education should be ran.
Original post by JamesTheCool
It's not personal preferences. It's not exactly easy to relate to people who talk about Latin if you went to a state school where you didn't have the opportunity to study anything about it.

But that's just an example. There are many other toff topics which are just as alienating for those of us who are from planet Earth.


Weird, the only people I've ever met that talk about Latin are from grammar schools. Some state schools get the opportunity, many private schools don't.

Then you seem to have a problem with some peoples academic hobbies (which is a bit weird) rather than private schools. Have you ever actually been to a private school? I think you'll find most people have quite average interests, even at Eton and Harrow. You'll get people who enjoy academia though, but they'll just feel more open to expressing it than at some state schools. Obviously going to uni, you're more likely to meet more people doing similar courses with similar interests.

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This whole thread has just become moronic class war.
Reply 63
Yeah I definitely will
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Original post by alexh42
Would you send your children to an independent school if you could afford it comfortably?

I personally would in order to give my child the best possible start in life in my opinion. However other people may not because of not wanting their kids to become 'posh', or having a socialist view on this matter.

State your reasons.


I would send them to an independent school, solely on the basis that I would want my children to have the best possible education which will lead onto a good life. Basically the same reasons as you. :smile:
Original post by Decerto
I would send them to an independent school, solely on the basis that I would want my children to have the best possible education which will lead onto a good life. Basically the same reasons as you. :smile:


What if, in your area, the state schools were every bit as good as the private schools, would you still opt for private? Also, what if it meant sending them away to live far away?


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Original post by myblueheaven339
What if, in your area, the state schools were every bit as good as the private schools, would you still opt for private? Also, what if it meant sending them away to live far away?


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If the state schools were up to scratch and rated outstanding with a very high pass rate, I wouldn't mind sending them there. I obviously would do some research first into the school.

If it involved sending them away, I would probably look for a new job, look for the best area to live which is close to an independent school and then relocate. I would only relocate if it isn't a boarding school though.

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Original post by Sheldor
Weird, the only people I've ever met that talk about Latin are from grammar schools. Some state schools get the opportunity, many private schools don't.

Then you seem to have a problem with some peoples academic hobbies (which is a bit weird) rather than private schools. Have you ever actually been to a private school? I think you'll find most people have quite average interests, even at Eton and Harrow. You'll get people who enjoy academia though, but they'll just feel more open to expressing it than at some state schools. Obviously going to uni, you're more likely to meet more people doing similar courses with similar interests.

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That's strange, I go to a grammar school and they do latin which I thought was usually something they taught at private school.
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Personally, I wouldnt as after I complete my physics degree I could generally help them with all their science/maths work and school would just compliment that, so i could save for their university as your paying around 4-6 thousand pounds a year, so 2 years at private school is roughly a year at uni.
Original post by pink pineapple
That's strange, I go to a grammar school and they do latin which I thought was usually something they taught at private school.


Latin has been increasingly popular at state schools since it became part of the Ebacc Measure
Original post by TenOfThem
Latin has been increasingly popular at state schools since it became part of the Ebacc Measure


But I thought the Ebacc was an alternative to GCSEs and they learn it from about year 8?
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Probably not, I have a few fundamental misgivings about the idea of private education in general. I don't think being state educated has really stopped me reaching my potential so I don't see much of a reason to assume my children would need a different approach.
Original post by pink pineapple
But I thought the Ebacc was an alternative to GCSEs



No


and they learn it at from about year 8?


Again ... increasingly the case in state schools
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At the end of the day when you are parents you will send your children to the best school available for your child whether this is state or independent if you have the funds.

As a parent I can say hand on heart that your kids happiness and success will become a priority over personal ideals.
Original post by TenOfThem
No



Again ... increasingly the case in state schools


Is the trend a new thing?
Original post by Decerto
If the state schools were up to scratch and rated outstanding with a very high pass rate, I wouldn't mind sending them there. I obviously would do some research first into the school.

If it involved sending them away, I would probably look for a new job, look for the best area to live which is close to an independent school and then relocate. I would only relocate if it isn't a boarding school though.

:smile:


That's interesting. I'm very lucky to live in an area where there are lots of outstanding state schools so would consider private school if we still lived in the same area. I can't imagine sending any children I have to boarding school, I think they would miss out on many aspects of a good child-parent relationship.


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Original post by Redolent
Probably not, I have a few fundamental misgivings about the idea of private education in general. I don't think being state educated has really stopped me reaching my potential so I don't see much of a reason to assume my children would need a different approach.


Your comment is an interesting one and no offence, but I think a lot of people who've been to private school might take the opposite view. It does seem to partly depend on the education the parents had. There were a lot more kids at my school whose parents had been privately educated than not, but of course a history of family affluence also plays a part.
Original post by pink pineapple
Is the trend a new thing?


Yes, since it became an option in the Ebacc Measure
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Original post by myblueheaven339
That's interesting. I'm very lucky to live in an area where there are lots of outstanding state schools so would consider private school if we still lived in the same area. I can't imagine sending any children I have to boarding school, I think they would miss out on many aspects of a good child-parent relationship.


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Unfortunately, my school is rubbish. I work hard at home though so hopefully I can do ok. :smile: I do believe that in some of the poorer schools, people can achieve as long as they work hard at school and at home. Nevertheless, I would still consider sending my children to an independent school. :smile:
Original post by TenOfThem
Yes, since it became an option in the Ebacc Measure


I think it's something they specialise in though and doesn't have anything to do with the Ebacc. Heck, my mum said went to the same school and said she did latin there.

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