Me and my ex have been through a lot. Started going out, she fell in love for me. I for her, but I never told her. She split up with me. I still felt the same, wanted her back. She went on a date. I went into overdrive, told her how I felt, wrote her letters, sent her Facebook messages, texts, you name it to win her back. Was a bit of a pest. Nothing worked. Told her I was over her and was moving on. That same night we ended up doing stuff with each other. She told me she loved me, I told her, we said we were gonna try again but keep it quiet from friends, as we'd just split up. Couple of days later she said we need to stop it. It coincided with her brother being told he had a clot on his brain. Tried to be there for her, but nothing. Couple of days later we talked on Facebook. Things were okay, and she wanted to meet up with me last night before going out with friends. Didn't happen because her mate was with her, but a few of us go the pub. I buy her a drink, we're okay. She tells me the other night was a mistake and she regrets it. Said she'd talk to me afterwards, then when the time came she just walked home. I, being a bit drunk, stupidly said 'kiss me', whilst at the front of her house. She closes the door. We text for a bit, I try and work things out, told her I've been holding off a date in case there was a chance things could work with us. She told me to go on the date, she has feelings for me but it can't work. I've been clingy and 'scaring' her with my letters and stuff - even though the other night she said it what made her realise I loved her. She also said me being like this is making her feelings fade.
Today after clearing my head, sent her a message saying if we can be mates then okay, sorry about all what's happened, I don't regret the other night. Told her I was going on a date tonight and can we go for a drink - as friends - next week to see how that goes. She replied saying she knew about this date because of Twitter, she's sick of the essays and she hopes I have a nice date. I asked whether that means we're going to try as mates or what and she's ignoring me now.
I really want to try as mates. If there's feelings we both have but she won't acknowledge surely that's worth something? Could the date spark some jealousy or something?
Trying everything here to get her back. Know I shouldn't but I honestly love her and can't see myself being with another girl. Not while she feels the same.