I did reception (the first year of primary school when you're 4/5), and my mother hated the school and the way the teachers dealt with children, so she took me out. She has said that she wouldn't have sent me to school at all and homeschooled me from the start but I really wanted to go so she sent me to the local school with the best reputation. I was home schooled for around 7 and a half years, until family circumstances meant that I had to start at a school around halfway through Year 8. I have been in state education since then, and I am now at college studying A Levels. My sister, who is five years younger than me and now in Year 7, was homeschooled from birth until Year 3.
As one of the only homeschooled kids who has commented, I feel like I should give you my opinion on homeschooling, from someone who has been in the position that your child will be in.
Until the age of about 9, I don't feel that home schooling had any negative effect on me. I was happy, I was healthy, I wasn't at all lonely and I was on target with my academic abilities. At this age I don't think anything was missing in terms of my "social life"; I had friends in my neighbourhood, kids whose parents knew mine, at various evening and weekend clubs such as Brownies, Woodcraft Folk and dance classes, and other homeschooled kids who attended meetings that my mum took me to in various public places such as libraries and community centres.
When I was about 9/10 I started to feel quite isolated. This was around the time I started see TV shows about kids my own age (I did watch TV at a younger age but most shows for really young kids are more focused on teaching them life lessons and basic morals than giving them an entertaining storyline) and read typical "little girl" magazines and books. I saw these fictional girls my age with their same friendship group that was all the same age and gender as them, all knew eachother and all knew the same people, and all saw eachother every day. I didn't have that in any of my circles. I carried on feeling this way until I started school.
When I came into the school at the age of 12 I was painfully shy and quiet as I had no idea how to behave. I was very well behaved and among the top students in pretty much every subject academically. I did make friends but they were nearly all other quiet kids, and the ones that weren't were all unpopular social misfits, mainly with learning and behavioural difficulties. I think that these friends are part of the reason I was later mildly bullied. In Year 9 I started to get bullied slightly, and tried to be normal by acting as stereotypical and common as possible, which included listening to even the most terrible rap and pop music and dumbing myself down slightly. I was only slightly more normal than before, and was also annoying to pretty much everyone. The way I acted was basically like a weird kid impersonating a stereotypical "chav", which I guess was exactly what I was, although I didn't realise this. In year 10 I started to become slightly more sane and stopped hiding my intelligence. The bullying died down a lot, then pretty much stopped.
To this day I am still a little shy and I'm not very good at making friends. Having said this I do have some very good friends, and even though I'm slightly different to others my age I fit in quite well. Also, looking at other white girls of my age where I live I would probably have a child by now if I had been conventionally educated. All in all I think home schooling has benefitted me more than it has negatively impacted me as I would rather be shy with a few good friends, good grades and a future than a teenage mother with very little education and loads of other "chavs" for friends who would leave me at the slightest bit of drama.
My little sister is an example of a child for whom home schooling has done nothing but benefit. She is now very intelligent and mature for her age and at a top grammar school, which she chose to take the test for. As she was only 7 when she started school other children didn't instantly label her as weird like they did with me, so she never really had the same issues I did, meaning that she didn't have that time-wasting phase of trying to be like everyone else.
As for academic stuff, I am studying A Levels, meaning that I'm probably not below the national average. Only around 20 kids from my year group (which contained around 120 kids) have gone on to study A Levels, and the rest are doing BTECS or worse, they couldn't get in to college. Many of these students were at the same level as some of the ones who are now doing A levels in younger years, so I'm going to say that this is because teaching is bad at the school rather than that there were just a lot of stupid kids. I have been told that I have done well to come out of that school with the grades I did.
In terms of non-social skills, I think there are only 2 things that I lack because of home school. One is that my handwriting is probably the worst I've seen from a person over the age of 10. This probably isn't helped by the fact that I'm left handed, but I think it is mainly down to the home schooling as I was rarely forced to do any written work so didn't practise it much. The other is sporting ability. I have very low fitness levels despite being only slightly above average size for a female of my height, and have no aim, sense of rhythm, or coordination. This is probably due to the fact that I wasn't forced to do PE until I was 12, so did virtually no exercise other than walking to various place (which I did a lot because neither of my parents drive). Neither of these is really going to affect my future though.
So this was a ridiculously long post, but there you go. If anyone has any more questions about homeschool feel free to ask me as I can give you a truthful answer from the childs' perspective.