Boyfriend is driving me mad.

I don't know if it's things he's doing or if it's just me but he has been driving me mad recently. I constantly feel annoyed, angry or upset with him. When he acts nice towards me, I don't know how to be nice back, and I feel like I'm acting like a brick wall or something.

Basically, I'm quite miserable at the moment. And my relationship is causing it, but without the relationship I would probably be more miserable. He just acts stupid, and does stupid things. Does thoughtless things. One example is when we'd planned to go out for a meal, I got to his to pick him up and he was eating food his mum had cooked him. So we didn't go for a meal. That was just thoughtless in my opinion. Another time we were supposed to go for lunch after he finished work, I got there and texted him to say I was walking to his work then we'd find somewhere to go and he'd already gone and got himself a subway. These seem like petty/insignificant things but they are adding up and really getting to me and making me angry/upset. Tonight is already ruined before it's started, basically because he can't be bothered doing something we had arranged to do. And quite frankly I am fed up of it and how our relationship is at the moment. But he's become my life in the last year, I am dependent on him. Sometimes I feel like he's being a d**k on purpose, but truthfully I honestly don't think he realises and it just looks like I'm always moody/unreasonable.

Perhaps it's best to speak to him and tell him how you feel. You never know, he may have noticed that you are feeling a bit down recently and is trying to make you laugh/lighten the mood of which you are taking as "acting stupid".

If you are miserable in this relationship and this is making you miserable with your day-to-day life, then perhaps it's for the best if you take a break. But honestly, I would try talking to him if you haven't already and you might unearth some problems and find solutions to them