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I have a fat fetish. I need to accept it.

Hi! I'm a 20 year old guy, and not trolling or joking, I have a fat fetish. Basically, I like gaining weight, I like feeling fat, and I purposely eat loads to stay the weight I am. I'm not gaining anymore weight and I wouldn't ever let this affect my health.

This used to be slim... http://i.imgur.com/5QuqQKw.png

I've tried losing weight in the past. This fetish hasn't gone away. I like bigger women because of it. I find it attractive to see a lady with a bigger belly, or carrying like 30lbs extra than she should. I think it's cute.

I do eat healthily, it's just I eat a lot, but I do keep fit by cycling, I swim a lot, and I play some rugby too.

But I just feel ashamed of who I am at the moment. I've tried losing weight to see if that would get rid of it, but it's still stuck with me. I'll always have it. I'm worried what people think of me. Like I went on a big family cruise last Summer. My Uncles and a few others were commenting on my belly. I didn't really know what to say. I secretly like my body. When i'm just in my boxers, I like seeing my belly hang down onto my thighs/in my lap. I know it sounds weird, but I like it.

I'm always going to be like this, but I need to accept it. It's who I am. If there were no commenters, I'd feel fine. I'm just worried what people think of me. I've been told i'm good looking and "cute", i feel i've got a nice personality, and if there were any health issues surrounding it, i'd lose the weight, but i want to stay as who i am.

I had a girlfriend once who was into the same thing but she just had a really kinda spikeful personality which I originally didn't know about.

How can I accept it?
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Trip506
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Channel 4 made a whole documentary on this. http://www.channel4.com/programmes/my-big-fat-fetish/episode-guide/series-1/episode-1

It's more common than you might think.
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Hanvyj
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Well, its not the worst fetish you could have...

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