boyfriends computer

What is wrong with porn?

Some girls don't mind about that, but some have a different opinion.
Personally, I hate the idea of my boyfriend ejacuating over another person. I feel like if they're with me, they should only want me. I don't know if that's selfish or not but I'm sure a lot of other girls feel the same, knowing some others that do.
I think some guys' are insensitive to this idea that some girls don't like the thought of it. I'm sure they can control themselves if their girlfriend feels weird about the whole thing.

I have just discovered hundreds of picture of topless women on my boyfriends desktop computer, this even included pictures of a girl i used to go to high school with (but they weren't of her topless) and quite a few videos as well. They're mainly all pictures from blogs so it's not as if any of them were porn stars. I'm not sure how to react to this, its happend before and i've told him that it makes me feel unloved, unwanted and bascially as though i bore him, theyre much better looking than me and have much better figures. I dont know how to react this time after saying what ive previously said to him before.

any suggestions.

Thanks

Why would you keep your porn in downloads, I don't even. Fair enough it was somewhere like that If not though I still think she shouldn't have been looking for porn

To try and put it into perspective. I know but if someone's as insecure as the OP quite clearly is, she's going to read that and worry.

I took issue with it because things like "oh noes porn! " build up a **** stereotype of women and create bitchiness. Sorry if that wasn;t your intention but that's why I said what I said

I think a lot of people don't even realize there is a 'downloads' folder. You'd be surprised. They just click "open" on all these pictures and don't even realize they're all saved in there for future.

Alternatively, if no one uses your computer, you might not bother to hide your porn folder. Then suddenly you have a partner and forget that you never hid it and they only have to use your computer once and Boom!

Never happened to me with porn as such. But my boyfriend found some pretty awful pictures of me when I was younger because I forgot to delete them. A bit of a sillier thing than this to worry about, but I was still mortified. That's why I was so happy to get a new computer. I'd build up so much crap on my old one that I was scared to let people use it because they always seemed to stumble onto some rubbish or another.

To answer another of your questions, well every time you try to upload a picture to facebook or import from a device or whatnot it usually comes up with My Pictures and thumbnails for all the files, so there's a couple of ways you could see in there by accident. And I suppose all it takes is for her boyfriend to ask her to find a specific picture in there, forget what else is in that folder and ****storm. Not that I personally care if my boyfriend had porn, but some obviously do.

Then, start making porn so he can masturbate over your videos and pictures. Problem solved.

He just doesnt seem to understand that fact that it upsets me so much, we've been in a relationship for almost just over 2 years and i've known him for just over 4. He tells me that he's stopped but I just can't quite believe it, I know i should ttrust him but so far he seems to of given me every reason not to

I have just discovered hundreds of picture of topless women on my boyfriends desktop computer, this even included pictures of a girl i used to go to high school with (but they weren't of her topless) and quite a few videos as well. They're mainly all pictures from blogs so it's not as if any of them were porn stars. I'm not sure how to react to this, its happend before and i've told him that it makes me feel unloved, unwanted and bascially as though i bore him, theyre much better looking than me and have much better figures. I dont know how to react this time after saying what ive previously said to him before.

any suggestions.

Thanks