Should I ask my seminar tutor out?

If there are no rules against it and he won't get in trouble then go for it.

I don't think there are any rules, so I guess he wouldn't get in trouble for it, no.

Hmm, what to say though. I'd have to e-mail him as I won't see him in person again now.

Obviously from a guys point of view - if you want to ask him out - don't frame him as your tutor - he'll decline obviously. However, if you were to find him in a bar, e.g. by coincidence - go for it!

It's highly unlikely I will bump into him in a bar haha, he doesn't live in my uni city. So I shouldn't e-mail him? Too teachery/studenty weird?

Well that's not going to freak him out....

Play it cool as much as possible.

Find out where he usually goes after class - and trip into him. He'll likely be flattered if you ask anyway.

A friend of mine (21) is going out with his tutor (28) - it's perfectly cool.

I'm quite a confident girl when it comes to asking men out, normally I wouldn't hesitate, however due to him being my seminar tutor I feel I should ask.

Anyway, he's a young guy, phd student. He has the best sense of humour and from things he has dropped into classes about himself I think we have a lot in common. I've done a bit of a stalk and I'm pretty sure he's single.

If I try and view it from a seminar tutor's pov, I don't really see anything wrong with it. Unis (well mine at least) don't have any regulations saying you're not allowed to date students. Anyway, my seminars have finished now so I guess I'm not really his student.

I just don't know how I'd go about it if I did, or even if I should?

Why?

If you want to, go for it. But do you think you may have him again next year? It's a possibility right? Could you face seeing him after being rejected, or having broken up in a seminar if you had him again?

Like you said he's a student not a actual staff member so you should go for it if you can force some kind of encounter from it. Just ask him out for a drink and let the sparks fly, he can teach everything you need to know too

I dont think any guy likes girls who throw themselves at them, as you obviously like doing often

Imagine you in his position: getting a random email from a girl (younger student) in his seminar class who is asking him out on a date when he's probably struggling to remember your name and face.

Nah it's not. We don't have phd students teaching us in third year, only lecturers, and I've chosen my modules which are nothing like his area. But I see what you mean. If I thought that was the case I wouldn't bother at all.
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I dont think any guy likes girls who throw themselves at them, as you obviously like doing often