would you trust a drug dealer????

would you trust a drug dealer???? and would they ever be loyal??????
my friend has a drug dealer boyfriend who has been in jail many times......
she loves him but im not too sure-what should she do?????????

Reply 1

FubbyTucker

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Let her live her own life?

Reply 2

paperclip1213

The heart wants what the heart wants.

She should do whatever she wants to do. You can't choose who you fall for.

OP

she's 15 btw

She's a bit young :s-smilie:

How old is he if he's been in jail "many times"?

Also what has he been in jail for? Just for possession, or for anything else? A guy who's been in jail for violence would be more of a concern to me than someone who's been in jail for possession.

Reply 5

dasolja123

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Original post by desdemonata

She's a bit young :s-smilie:

How old is he if he's been in jail "many times"?

Also what has he been in jail for? Just for possession, or for anything else? A guy who's been in jail for violence would be more of a concern to me than someone who's been in jail for possession.

jail for selling-whole fam does it

Reply 6

90pies an hour

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Good mate of mine has 'dealt' in the past, has a kid and is one of the soundest lads you'll ever meet...

Reply 7

dasolja123

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Original post by 90pies an hour

Good mate of mine has 'dealt' in the past, has a kid and is one of the soundest lads you'll ever meet...

i have talked to him before and he says he cant change his life

Reply 8

desdemonata

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Original post by dasolja123

jail for selling-whole fam does it

And how old is he?

Does he treat her right? Being a drug dealer doesn't necessarily mean being a bad person.

Reply 9

dasolja123

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Original post by desdemonata

And how old is he?

Does he treat her right? Being a drug dealer doesn't necessarily mean being a bad person.

i think hes 18

he says he loves her aswell and he seems really sweet but i dont want her to get hurt-as she has been hurt before

Reply 10

shakerist

You can just say all drug dealers are untrustworthy, I know a few, and I would entirely trust my life with them, I grew up with one, ive known the other 2 for 7 years. Drug dealers are human too :smile:

Reply 11

desdemonata

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Original post by dasolja123

i think hes 18

he says he loves her aswell and he seems really sweet but i dont want her to get hurt-as she has been hurt before

How many times can he have been in jail if he's only 18? Assuming you're not talking about juvenile delinquent centres.

Just because she's been hurt before doesn't mean he will hurt her. Thinking like that is very damaging to relationships and encourages you to pass up a good thing out of fear.

Reply 12

The_Internet

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Asides from an 18 year old really shouldn't be with a 15 year old (Though 16 not too bad), there are people that do deal drugs who are nice people, and then there are those that get involved with the whole "Lets fight over drugs and territory" thing. It really depends from person to person

Reply 13

dasolja123

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im not really sure how he is as a person as ive only talked to him over bbm
he has a little sister though and he does everything for her and he beat up another guy who hurt his older sister....

Reply 14

dasolja123

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Original post by desdemonata

How many times can he have been in jail if he's only 18? Assuming you're not talking about juvenile delinquent centres.

Just because she's been hurt before doesn't mean he will hurt her. Thinking like that is very damaging to relationships and encourages you to pass up a good thing out of fear.