Ending it

Phone would be preferred over text or other online messaging.

Skype/Facetime

Right my girlfriend lives too far away for me to legitimately get to her place, and break up with her and leave. I know that is a bit harsh of me, but I am not in any position to actually go anywhere as I can't drive.

She lives about 15 miles away from me, we've been together just over a month, so it is nothing serious. But I don't have a car, so I can't get to hers easily, a taxi would be astronomical, I can't exactly ask someone to drive me 30 odd miles (even if I did pay for petrol, I wouldn't feel right).

So my question is, is it okay to end a relationship over the phone?

I mean given it's not gotten serious enough, maybe? Opinions from anyone is appreciated.

What's been said and done so far? No real commitment either side, could just let it dwindle or 'Dear John' letter. Otherwise phone is a minimum and face to face more honourable if she had expectations. Put yourself in her shoes and decide whats appropriate.

She's been far too committed in the short time we've been together and it has really scared me, I know that makes me sounds like an idiot. But I'm 19, she's 17, and already she's talking about marriage.

I am also a bit of a commitaphobe. Or you know a complete *******, either way, I still have Uni to even start, and being with someone who wants to marry me at this stage of life is a bit... over the top?