Hey everyone! I'm new to the TSR Community, just started using it even though I created an account back in Febuary. However, I'm in a LDR. I'm in the UK, he's in America in Philadelphia. I met him 23rd March 2015, we started dating 8th December 2015, so it's nearly been 6 months now. However, we keep arguing. Over the pettiest of stuff, I'm extremely overprotective but he knows why, so is he. However, these past 4-5 days we've been at each others throats because I was in Bulgaria for a week, I met a guy there and Justin didn't like it at all, it's as if I can't have friends, you know? I know he trusts me, but sometimes it gets on my nerves that he automatically hates any guy I talk to or hang out with. Yet he turns it on me and says 'oh well you're the same' .. Ok, yeah I get annoyed, but I'm not constantly on at him for it, as long as he makes it clear they're just a friend, then I'm ok. But with him it's as if it's the end of the damn world. I think it was yesterday or the day before, I woke up at 4:30am (11:30pm his time - 5hr time difference) and he kept me awake til 7:30am.. The reason was because he brought up this girl that I really dislike, she messed things up for me and him last summer, and he also is to blame. I won't go into it.. but basically I don't like her at all. So he tells me 'Babe you're gonna be mad.. 4 months ago I was flirting with her..' yet he'd ALREADY told me about 2 months ago that last year he was talking to other girls besides me, but he only just told me recently. How does he think that makes me feel? He said 'Babe it wasn't anything serious.. please don't be mad..' etc etc..
OF COURSE, I'm going to be mad, not only did you **** me over. You've been lying to me. When I met him I had a bunch of guy friends because I don't get along well with girls. I cut off so many people, I barely talk to any of them now, he knows me inside and out basically everything about me and he thinks it's ok to do that and not be mad at him? Is he serious? There's no justifying it. We bicker, we argue, but I honestly don't know what to do. We were both crying on the phone. I said 'If you were going to do this, and you've hurt me several times already, you shouldn't have made me fall in love with you.. You're hurting me and you don't even care. I've cut off so many people for you, I have guys flirting with me and I haven't even bothered with any of them because I love you. Yet you go and back stab me yet again.. I don't even know what to say to you right now.'
So he told me to calm down, that he wanted to 'explain'. Due to it being early in the morning, I was exhausted.. I don't remember much of what he said but he basically turned it all on me saying 'You messed up in March, who was there for you when this and that happened? Do I go out talking to other chicks and sleeping with them? No because I love you' etc etc..
What do you think I should do? Forget about it and try to forgive him?.. I don't know