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Your ideal husband/wife?

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Apart from being attracted to them and having great relationship I would want them to be ok with the idea that once kids come along once of us either stops working or works from home to focus on raising the little monsters.

Reply 21

BonnyBonny

Original post by KratoSilVieres

Why musnt your wife be muslim?

Sorry I meant non white in a sense

Reply 22

aspirinpharmacist

Gilbert Blythe

Edit, and if I can't have Gilbert I am going to raise a brood of adopted children with Merida-like hair and an army of cats named after villains. :ninja:

(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 23

meenu89

Original post by William Turtle

'Faithful'?

Yes, must not cheat.

big boobs.

I ride solo, sorry :wink:

Reply 26

William Turtle

Original post by meenu89

Yes, must not cheat.

You didn't get my point XD

Reply 27

InadequateJusticex

-Faithful
-Romantic :colondollar:

-Someone I can have an intelligent conversation/debate with once in a while
-Appreciates good food/loves eating/can cook well
-Has very similar interests with me
-someone i can talk to easily for hours
-good sense of humour - can take a joke
-Tall
-Short dark hair and light (green or blue) eyes :lovedup:

-huge muscles but not vain
-goatee :biggrin:

Damn, is my list too long?

Reply 28

miss.ce.0x

+ Faithful
+ Can hold intelligent conversation
+ A sense of humour
+ Looks after their health/hygiene

That's all I ask for!

Reply 29

LibbyG

Faithful, able to hold an intelligent conversation, must have aspirations, be dedicated and honest. Trust is a big thing, as is the ability to talk about everything and anything. Oh and I must be able to rely on him! :biggrin:

In terms of appearance, quite tall with green/blue eyes and a frame thats not overly muscular but not skinny either. Quite specific, but the personality is more important. :redface:

Reply 30

username447608

somebody who I can just cuddle up to after a hard day and talk to about anyting
somebody who makes me laugh
and somebody who still gives me butterflies everytime I see him regardless of how long weve been married.

Reply 31

Anonymous #1

My boyfriend. He's sensible, responsible, caring, intelligent, kind, thoughtful and sexy as hell :biggrin:

(Anon because I'm trying to avoid discussing marriage because I'm currently too young to get married and I don't want to seem like I'm planning too far in advance...)

Reply 32

nph

A man who is:
-Kind
-Caring
-Has a sense of humour
-A gentlemen
-Cute and handsome
-Intelligent
-Is okay with me being weird :wink:

(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 33

nicholoser

Original post by frappe framboise

Kind, fat lady here! :biggrin:

He is gay anyways. In another life if OP was a woman ...

Reply 34

BefuddledPenguin

- I must feel like they genuinely love me
- Must make me feel wanted and appreciated
- Must not be excessively overweight (slightly chubby is ok)
- Must be at least agnostic if not atheist.
- Must be near my age.

That's it really, I don't think I need that much to be happy.

Reply 35

Agata

Somebody who is funny, charming.. yet teases deliberately.

Handsome but in a messy way.. knows DIY and is a kind of "do it yourself" guy. Not too skinny, I like em meaty :smile:

Provider, wants to provide but lets me pay too sometimes. Does say he's too tired for sex. Youre not allowed to be too tired for sex. Has to be adventurous and unexpected :smile:

Doesnt have to be incredibly smart, just enough to hold a convo.. maybe specialises in something..

Faithful and trusts me.

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Reply 36

LilacLily

Charming
Has a sense of humour
Emerald green eyes(I know it's rare but a girl can dream..)
Happy to just lie around and do nothing together
Willing to try new things
Attractive

Reply 37

ChemicalBond

-Kind, but not a pushover
-Someone who enjoys going to the theatre, etc
-Has a sense of humour, someone I can be weird with
-Shares my love of the great outdoors and animals

Reply 38

Platinum Mech

Good-natured, down-to-earth, pleasant (eg. not sarcastic or patronising) towards others, bookish, similar/shared interests, physically attractive to me personally.

Reply 39

hali0112

ideal husband - just human. I don't have high expectations in terms of personality just that he is able to learn from his mistakes, not stubborn, able to compromise, sensitive to my feelings and respects my thoughts/decisions/beliefs, not lazy, motivated, has a career goal/focus, not selfish, has strong family values, loyal, preferably not obsessed about - gym, alcohol, smoking or drugs, healthy weight :smile: