How would that even work? So they're already mid intercourse and she says "Oh no I don't want to do this stop" but you're already at climax and about to ejaculate. How do you even stop the urges at such a high level?
Why get the guy turned on in the first place it's so easy for women to cry rape sometimes,however with victims of rape I completely sympathise just the fact that sometimes women can lead men on
He didn't stop, told me that because I'd agreed originally that it wasn't his problem if I changed my mind
Lol nah, what you got there is what we call a rapist. If you're in a relationship and this wasn't an ONS, then time to rid get quickly.
Or you could offer him a BJ. Then decide to bite down, if he protests and asks you to stop, tell him he agreed originally and it's not your problem if he doesn't like your method.
How would that even work? So they're already mid intercourse and she says "Oh no I don't want to do this stop" but you're already at climax and about to ejaculate. How do you even stop the urges at such a high level?
You just do it.
You're not an animal, just stop and finish by yourself if she says to stop.
The fact that you agreed originally doesn't mean anything if he knew you'd changed your mind (because you told him) and continued anyway. Extending his "logic" that consent is irrevocable, would having had sex with him one time before mean you couldn't decline next time?
He didn't stop, told me that because I'd agreed originally that it wasn't his problem if I changed my mind
What a total and utter bastard.
Yes, continuing to have sex with you if you have said you want to stop is rape. It must have been really scary for you and I'm sorry you had to go through that. Whether you want to take things any further now is up to you. You might want to speak to http://www.rapecrisis.org.uk/ for more support and information - I hope they can help you.