23 year old virgin. What age should I consider paying for it?

Jimmy Carr lost his at 28 I believe.

Anyway, the truth is, if you go to a club, you will find some horny girl who really wants to get laid.

Indeed. But the question we should be asking is: does this horny girl want to get laid by the OP? :ahee:

Reply 81

Cashmee

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You don't have to lose it to a girl you know, A guy will do just fine. :erm:

Original post by Hellz_Bellz!

Jimmy Carr lost his at 28 I believe

Chris Martin from Coldplay lost his at a similar age, and ended up with Gwyneth Paltrow :holmes:

Reply 83

SloaneRanger

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Original post by Jjj90

What a stupid shallow society this can be.

Couldn't he just be a horny little boy....

Reply 84

DatingDemon

I lost my virginity when I was 16 to my girlfriend who was also 16. After we broke up, about 4 months later, i got fed up with trying so ventured into the world of prostitution. Went on trips all over Europe and paid for it and never had a problem OP. Now I am older and more mature and experienced I am looking to settle down and I am on the dating scene hence the name.

In my time dating (online dating) I have come across women far more mental than any of the escorts I visited. People say things to be nice OP but the truth is, do you really want to be 30 years of age and inexperienced when the right mature woman comes along for you or do you want someone who can take control of the situation and know what he's doing?

All of this fairytale nonsense is exactly that unfortunately OP, nonsense. Women always say 'wait' or 'the right woman will come along' but its all a myth. Its funny how the women who say these things are never putting themselves forward. I think that itself tells its own story.

Reply 85

SoftPunch

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Original post by Cashmee

You don't have to lose it to a girl you know, A guy will do just fine. :erm:

Either way OP would probably have to pay :tongue:

Dilemma!

Reply 86

RachelB11

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What Dating Demon and some others advocating prostitutes don't seem to yet realise is that sex as sex alone isn't anywhere near as good as sex with someone you care about. Because when you care about someone all the pressure is removed. There isn't a time limit to "get it right". If it isn't great sex then you're with someone who'll work with you to get it right - and sex is not just about one person doing something, it's a mutual act. If you're with someone who demands great sex and will dump you if you don't perform believe me, you're not with a very nice person and it won't last anyway. Believe me as one of those who lost my virginity to a fellow virgin, it isn't anything to worry about. You don't need instructions, it is very instinctive. And the best sex is that where your partner is really into you and worships you and your body - that is the biggest turn on of all, not achieved by a slapper who sees you as just another body (to compare with other bodies that were probably better than yours).

Reply 87

Mankytoes

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Original post by RachelB11

What Dating Demon and some others advocating prostitutes don't seem to yet realise is that sex as sex alone isn't anywhere near as good as sex with someone you care about. Because when you care about someone all the pressure is removed. There isn't a time limit to "get it right". If it isn't great sex then you're with someone who'll work with you to get it right - and sex is not just about one person doing something, it's a mutual act. If you're with someone who demands great sex and will dump you if you don't perform believe me, you're not with a very nice person and it won't last anyway. Believe me as one of those who lost my virginity to a fellow virgin, it isn't anything to worry about. You don't need instructions, it is very instinctive. And the best sex is that where your partner is really into you and worships you and your body - that is the biggest turn on of all, not achieved by a slapper who sees you as just another body (to compare with other bodies that were probably better than yours).

I think most people understand that sex with someone you care about is better than sex with a prostitute, but that isn't his choice at the moment. His choice is sex with a prostitute, or no sex. Sometimes, sex with a prostitute may be the best option for someone. However, I think maybe a lot of people just want him to do it so he'll stop moaning on here.

Reply 88

IllmaticDragon

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Original post by Red Sea Syndrome

Why pay for it when you can sell it for large sums of money?

That wit impresses me

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Original post by Bassetts

I created a thread at the beginning about my zero sexual experience (23, no sex, never kissed, never hugged or touched a girl in any sexual or intimate way). I said I don't want to pay for sex if I can avoid it.

I'm looking for opinions. In your opinion what age would you consider paying for sex if you were in my position? I don't want replies like 'do whats right for you' or 'you shouldnt care what other people think'. I want a straight up answer of when you think would be the right time to consider paying for it. I thought if I hadn't had any experience by the age of 26/27, that would be the time to pay for it.

Give yourself a year. If you still feel like sex do it.

Now I would only pay for sex if it was *worth* paying for.
Even if its a bargain, £10 for a rat-whore would be bad.
Save up a grand and go for something that is really impressive like a japanese Zooey Deschanel lookalike or somthin

Oh yeah I will probly be in your situation in 6 years (fingers crossed it all ends first!)

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Reply 91

Jubz1

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Anything above 18 but I think you should hang in there, a girl could be around the corner. Use a condom.

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Reply 92

SK3PTIK4L

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Original post by Bassetts

I created a thread at the beginning about my zero sexual experience (23, no sex, never kissed, never hugged or touched a girl in any sexual or intimate way). I said I don't want to pay for sex if I can avoid it.

I'm looking for opinions. In your opinion what age would you consider paying for sex if you were in my position? I don't want replies like 'do whats right for you' or 'you shouldnt care what other people think'. I want a straight up answer of when you think would be the right time to consider paying for it. I thought if I hadn't had any experience by the age of 26/27, that would be the time to pay for it.

Really don't worry... it's not a big deal whether you have or not and I'd guess that if you found a girl you liked you would go there

Reply 93

xDave-

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Personally, I wouldn't bother. It's not an enjoyable experience from what I've heard.

Reply 94

Bassetts

OP

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Original post by IllmaticDragon

Give yourself a year. If you still feel like sex do it.

Now I would only pay for sex if it was *worth* paying for.
Even if its a bargain, £10 for a rat-whore would be bad.
Save up a grand and go for something that is really impressive like a japanese Zooey Deschanel lookalike or somthin

Oh yeah I will probly be in your situation in 6 years (fingers crossed it all ends first!)

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the money is the main thing holding me back. :o:

a grand is far too much.

why are you quoting me on all my threads btw? :s-smilie:

Reply 95

IllmaticDragon

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Original post by Bassetts

the money is the main thing holding me back. :o:

a grand is far too much.

why are you quoting me on all my threads btw? :s-smilie:

(Haha quoted u again)
Lol im on ipod and i dont know how to work this stuff.
To be honest when I quote i'm just replying.

W the grand thing: it is a lot but I would just put away so much every year until I had enough.
If by some magic a girl actually got interested in me I could then spend the money on glue sticks or ponies (or whatever girls like).

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Reply 96

gazy2k

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I'm 28 and I'm still a virgin and me and girls is a very touchy subject and has been since school till now. It made no difference how I was around girls espeically the one I really liked along the the outcome for me has always been the same in some way shape of form which is is big fat **** all. personally now I've been thinking about using them escort agencies but it a last resort type of thing for me cuz I should not have to pay for sex while everyone around me is always has guy/girls on the go for whatever where its bf/gf or no strings fun and sleeping around. for me its a it pure pressure and depressing that every girl I want clearly does not want to give me a chance it really pisses me off I'm just nobodies type in general so I've come to the point where there no point trying for me anymore because end of the day I'm not gonna get no one for anything at all.

Reply 97

rhianxoxo

Sex is not all that of a big deal. I felt pressured into it and thought that I had to do it before uni so I did. And it was horrible, I wish I waited but I can't go back now.

I think you should try and put yourself out there a bit more. Meet new people, interact with different girls. By the looks of things you haven't had any experience with a girl yet. Take things slowly... sex is not everything its all cracked up to be. But it's not going to change you, you will still be the same person after it. And paying for it is going to make you feel like crap, I felt crap doing it with some random person that I never saw again.

Work on yourself, and go out and try and find that confidence, believe that you can find that girl. And she will be the luckiest girl in the world. Be happy and have self-confidence :smile:

Reply 98

lou 22

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Original post by IllmaticDragon

(Haha quoted u again)
Lol im on ipod and i dont know how to work this stuff.
To be honest when I quote i'm just replying.

W the grand thing: it is a lot but I would just put away so much every year until I had enough.
If by some magic a girl actually got interested in me I could then spend the money on glue sticks or ponies (or whatever girls like).

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Poor you