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Best Friend's Girlfriend Hates Me

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She probably feels like they should be a couple living alone together and you're getting in the way. I'd be jealous too. But it doesn't excuse the way she is treating you. It probably would have been a better arrangement if she had had a close girl friend living there too, so she would have a friend to spend time with when you and your mate are hanging out too. It's really easy for the girl to feel jealous and inadequate if her bf is spending time with the boys and not with her, the best thing she can do is socialise with other people too and then she wouldn't feel so needy.

Anyway I appreciate that's her problem, not yours, but you really should talk to her. I mean make her talk to you, you live together don't you? surely there are times when your friend isn't home and you could just confront her about it and ask outright what her problem with you is. It's likely there is none other than her jealousy and she will realise that when she is faced with explaining to you what her problem is.

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lauren brookes

Im male, my closet of friend from uni (also male) is more like family to me than a friend, and its the same with him too. he recently started dating this girl from another uni (they have been serious now for 6 to 7 months i think), but she is the jealous and hate type. She cannot stand me because im like family to my friend, she cannot even stand his sisters or his parents. She is 18 (still immature) he is 21 (and more level headed than me), if there is anyone who will drive a wedge between me and my friend is her. She is close to her family and her friends, i would like to see my friend get her to choose between him and her family/friends...she would choose her family/friends....but expects my friend to choose her!!!! an 18 year old immature girl with lots of history and baggage expects a good hearted down to earth family/friend oriented 21 year old lad to give up those around him for her...soon she will expect him to give up on his career and his sport....and before long...she will get borred of him and dump him!!.....i wish my family-like friend could see what she is doing!!...she is using him as punch-bag for bad past relationships!! she even has the oddasity to tell him which days of the month he can meet up with me and how many hours is he allowed to spend with me...he is not even allowed to have private phone calls...he has to give a full run through of this entire day to her on a daily basis!!