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    (Original post by desdemonata)
    :lol: so in bed with a girl, you would be completely fine with her faking enjoyment? Faking orgasms?

    It's not so much about caring per se, but the fact that most people (if not all) would find a woman actually enjoying sex and actually coming, more enjoyable, more real, more akin to the actual sex they would have instead of porn if they could.
    let me put it this way;

    do guys watch an action movie for the realism ??

    the point of porn is to be unrealistic
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    (Original post by desdemonata)
    :lol: so in bed with a girl, you would be completely fine with her faking enjoyment? Faking orgasms?

    It's not so much about caring per se, but the fact that most people (if not all) would find a woman actually enjoying sex and actually coming, more enjoyable, more real, more akin to the actual sex they would have instead of porn if they could.
    I'm pretty sure it's not supposed to be real, it the whole 'suspension of disbelief' deal that goes with television and film. The situations most porn films are based around would never occur in real life unless the people involved were disturbed somehow. In the end it's a form of escapism more than anything else.
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    I've done webcamming, and made solo home-made videos (and some with my husband).

    As for the reason why I've done it - purely money. It's a job that's all. It's not difficult.

    As for proper professional porn - no. I wouldn't have sex with other people, and I don't have the face or figure for professional porn anyway. Nobody would want me for that.
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    We all gotta pay the bills someway.
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    (Original post by jusdorange)
    let me put it this way;

    do guys watch an action movie for the realism ??

    the point of porn is to be unrealistic
    Then why is amateur porn so popular?

    And it's not quite the same. You watch porn because you aren't having sex. You don't watch Jason Bourne because it's your day off from being a CIA agent.
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    (Original post by desdemonata)
    :lol: so in bed with a girl, you would be completely fine with her faking enjoyment? Faking orgasms?

    It's not so much about caring per se, but the fact that most people (if not all) would find a woman actually enjoying sex and actually coming, more enjoyable, more real, more akin to the actual sex they would have instead of porn if they could.
    Why on earth would I care if she was faking it or not? I actually wish more women did this because pretending to be a log in bed just because you aren't enjoying it is not cool. Put in some damn effort to entertain me.
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    (Original post by WGR)
    Why on earth would I care if she was faking it or not? I actually wish more women did this because pretending to be a log in bed just because you aren't enjoying it is not cool. Put in some damn effort to entertain me.
    You sound like a fantastic lover.

    ... Not :facepalm:
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    I wouldn't have sex with other men, so no.
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    (Original post by desdemonata)
    That's... pretty naive. Do you really think that any area of the sex industry has never exploited people?

    Not all porn stars are going to get paid thousands, because they aren't all Sasha Grey. In the same way, not all of them will have chosen to be in porn, but will have been forced into it by circumstances or desperation. If you were desperate, which would you choose out of porn or prostitution? Considering how people look down on prostitutes more and it can be that much more dangerous outside of a controlled environment...
    Please. Have you never heard of the welfare system? Give me one scenario where a British woman in the UK would HAVE to become a pornstar. You can't because they isn't any. Women do it either because they want fast money or they like sex. Why is this so hard to understand?
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    (Original post by desdemonata)
    Then why is amateur porn so popular?

    And it's not quite the same. You watch porn because you aren't having sex. You don't watch Jason Bourne because it's your day off from being a CIA agent.
    you understand nothing about guys
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    I never can understand the sequels in porn - The story line never follows through :cry2:
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    (Original post by WGR)
    Please. Have you never heard of the welfare system? Give me one scenario where a British woman in the UK would HAVE to become a pornstar. You can't because they isn't any. Women do it either because they want fast money or they like sex. Why is this so hard to understand?
    Since when are we talking about porn just within the UK?
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    No because a) the dudes in porn are unattractive and b) I'd only make love to one person I love, alone, in private.
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    Prostitutes and pornstars...



    Often hated by many people who sell themselves to their bosses for a whole lot less.
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    I personally wouldn't because the idea of people watching me have sex isn't appealing in the slightest. Besides that I just wouldn't want to be involved in the porn industry.

    However, I do think a lot of women who are pornstars do it because of the money (obviously) but because they genuinely enjoy it which is great. I don't judge women/men whom are pornstars because it's their choice. I have nothing against porn as long as the adults involved are consenting.
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    No.

    Its not my thing at all. I think the biggest motivation would be money tbh, I assume you get paid a good amount but that still wouldn't motivate me to do it. As i said it just isn't my thing.
    I do think that it is possible for some girls to get into the business because they do actually enjoy it but I think the enjoyment comes later for most and well the original motivation is money then with that they start to enjoy the job. I dunno...just a thought tbh.
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    (Original post by desdemonata)
    Since when are we talking about porn just within the UK?
    Don't try it. the vast majority of porn on sites frequented by UK males the girls speak perfect English so we can assume that they are from either the UK, USA, Canada etc. If they don't it's German, French etc. All countries who make some sort of effort to look after their citizens through welfare and clamp down hard on sexual exploitation. Whether girls in porn shot in Cambodia are exploited is irrelevant because we're talking about the Western porn industry here.
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    (Original post by LickingCarpet)
    Such as?
    Running a site. Impossible to do now as running a server would undoubtedly get me into trouble with IT at my university, but maybe in a few years' time for extra cash.
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    (Original post by desdemonata)
    I think that it's an industry with a big capacity to abuse people, but that some genuinely do choose to enter it. In the latter I have no problem with it. In fact, my main problem with porn is how awfully fake 99% of it (talking about straight porn here) is. How people manage to get off to really obviously faked enjoyment is beyond me :dontknow:

    Personally I don't think I could ever do it. I'm a bit too self-conscious for that, I enjoy real sex without a camera just fine, and I would be mortified if someone I knew found a video with me in it
    I always think that. Most porn is crap.
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    (Original post by WGR)
    Don't try it. the vast majority of porn on sites frequented by UK males the girls speak perfect English so we can assume that they are from either the UK, USA, Canada etc. If they don't it's German, French etc. All countries who make some sort of effort to look after their citizens through welfare and clamp down hard on sexual exploitation. Whether girls in porn shot in Cambodia are exploited is irrelevant because we're talking about the Western porn industry here.
    Yes, I'm sure that the highest % of the English-speaking women are British :curious: Because we totally have a larger population than the US...

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