I don't understand
I met a guy 9 months ago. He has outright told me he likes me but says he won't go on a date with me as I turned him down in the beginning. His friends have said he is stubborn and even though he likes me they said his pride means a lot.
He travels 40 miles to come for a night out. I didn't go out on Friday as I had other commitments and he told friends he was annoyed I didn't go even though everyone knew I wasn't going.
He was meant to come out this Friday too and dropped out because I put my name down on the Facebook event. I feel like he is playing games. I like him but need advice as I know this is a bad situation.
He travels 40 miles to come for a night out. I didn't go out on Friday as I had other commitments and he told friends he was annoyed I didn't go even though everyone knew I wasn't going.
He was meant to come out this Friday too and dropped out because I put my name down on the Facebook event. I feel like he is playing games. I like him but need advice as I know this is a bad situation.
He sounds like a fool. Only a fool would let pride stop you for getting what you wanted like this.
What exactly does he expect? He says he won't go on a date with you but is annoyed you aren't there on a night out? Sounds like he's creating imaginary rules that make getting together "acceptable", i.e not going on a formal date, just getting together casually, or something like that. So yes, games, though he probably isn't intending to confuse you, he just has his own silly ideas.
I wouldn't worry too much over him. Someone so childish and proud needs to get over themselves.
What exactly does he expect? He says he won't go on a date with you but is annoyed you aren't there on a night out? Sounds like he's creating imaginary rules that make getting together "acceptable", i.e not going on a formal date, just getting together casually, or something like that. So yes, games, though he probably isn't intending to confuse you, he just has his own silly ideas.
I wouldn't worry too much over him. Someone so childish and proud needs to get over themselves.
Even if you manage to get into a relationship with him, do you really want to? He sounds manipulative and passive-aggresive and unless a guy looks like Colin Firth, the whole 'pride' thing really isn't cool.
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