Question for all the loud outgoing guys reading this

Would you date a quiet girl who you got on really well with but who prefers a cosy night in
She drinks but doesn't get wasted - no chance of her cheating/getting off with other guys as she drinks within limits

Or would you prefer to date a loud girl who enjoys going out clubbing with her friends (similar to you)

Reply 1

Orthonym

Because all the loud outgoing guys spend their Saturday evenings on tsr trying to advise people in the relationships forum...

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Orthonym

Because all the loud outgoing guys spend their Saturday evenings on tsr trying to advise people in the relationships forum...

This doesn't just stay on overnight you know it stays on all day

Reply 3

Kygo

Original post by Anonymous

Would you date a quiet girl who you got on really well with but who prefers a cosy night in
She drinks but doesn't get wasted - no chance of her cheating/getting off with other guys as she drinks within limits

Or would you prefer to date a loud girl who enjoys going out clubbing with her friends (similar to you)

Original post by Orthonym

Because all the loud outgoing guys spend their Saturday evenings on tsr trying to advise people in the relationships forum...

I just got in (:

and yes, I would, it mainly depends on how you look (just being honest)

So much depends...

Sounds like my type of girl to be honest. I am currently at uni, and I am one of these people who likes to socialise with many people from all walks of life, and the one thing everybody describes me as is loud, ever since primary school.

In fact I wouldn't date a girl who you could count on to be out clubbing every week, or who you always see at your local club or on SU nights. Simply because I am attracted to the more reserved type of girl for some reason. There's more to find out, more to explore, then a girl who I had a one night stand with.

I would love to date a girl who loved to stay in sometimes, and just cuddle up and watch a movie or something. Personally, it is nice to come home to after studying or work and just chill with the person your into the most. My ex and I had a 2 1/2 year relationship and we did go out clubbing together sometimes, or she would go out for her friends birthday or something, but most of the time was spent together was indoors ordering food, watching a movie and cuddling each other to sleep.,(It was easy on the wallet as well.) I on the other hand would be out much more socialising with different people. She didn't quite like it when I went out all the time when we started dating, but because I was so into her, I scaled it back a bit, and later on into our relationship we compromised.

For a outgoing, loud person like myself to be with a more reserved person like her, that bought me back down to earth, but I could still be me around her.

It really is down to the couple to be honest, everybody is different, but it is really good to have a mix of activities when dating, otherwise it can become timid very quickly.

Reply 6

Mankytoes

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Original post by Anonymous

Would you date a quiet girl who you got on really well with but who prefers a cosy night in
She drinks but doesn't get wasted - no chance of her cheating/getting off with other guys as she drinks within limits

Or would you prefer to date a loud girl who enjoys going out clubbing with her friends (similar to you)

I generally prefer quieter girls. It isn't a criteria or anything, they just are more likely to fit my view of attractive femininity. My girlfriend is quieter, she does go clubbing but I wouldn't say that affects my view of her either way. I would only say a girl who goes out is more likely to accept me doing the same. The cheating thing wouldn't matter, because I wouldn't date a girl I couldn't trust.